<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u0130SM\u0130LLAH\u0130RRAHMAN\u0130RRAH\u0130M<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

<\/p>\n\n\n\n

BAYANLARIN D\u0130KKAT\u0130NE!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cY\u00dcK OLMAK DE\u011e\u0130L, Y\u00dcK ALMAK GEREK\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

<\/p>\n\n\n\n

K\u00e2inat\u0131n mutlak\nh\u00e2kimi olan y\u00fcce Allah\u2019a hamd, b\u00fct\u00fcn insanlara hitaben cihan\u015f\u00fcmul bir\n\u015feriat ile g\u00f6nderilen Hazreti Muhammed (s.a.v)\u2019e \u00e2line ashab\u0131na ve \u0130slam\nnizam\u0131na hayata getirip h\u00e2kim k\u0131lmak i\u00e7in m\u00fccahede ve m\u00fccadele eden t\u00fcm\nM\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlara Salat ve selam olsun.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Havva validemiz ile ba\u015flayan kad\u0131nl\u0131k\ntarihi o g\u00fcnden bug\u00fcne milyonlarca kad\u0131n d\u00fcnyaya gelmi\u015ftir. Bundan sonra da\nk\u0131yamete kadar da gelecektir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kad\u0131nlar\u0131n i\u00e7erisinde de\u011ferli h\u00fcrmete\nlay\u0131k \u0130slam davas\u0131nda m\u00fccadele eden Han\u0131mlar var oldu\u011fu gibi de\u011fersiz, yarars\u0131z,\nzararl\u0131, \u0130slam davas\u0131na faydas\u0131n\u0131 b\u0131rak\u0131n, zarar\u0131ndan ba\u015fka bir \u015fey yapmayan,\nM\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlara eziyet eden k\u00f6t\u00fc olan kad\u0131nlar da yok de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

 Allah (c.c) g\u00f6nderdi\u011fi dinden sapan millet ve\ntoplumlar aras\u0131nda zaman olmu\u015f ki kad\u0131n yerini kaybetmi\u015f, hor g\u00f6r\u00fclm\u00fc\u015f,\ninsanl\u0131k Haklar\u0131ndan mahrum b\u0131rak\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Zaman olmu\u015f ki kad\u0131na haddinden fazla\nde\u011fer verilmi\u015f Hakk\u0131ndan fazla Hak tan\u0131nm\u0131\u015f ve \u015f\u0131mart\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ve Yine bug\u00fcn oldu\u011fu gibi kad\u0131n erkek e\u015fit\nsay\u0131lm\u0131\u015f tahamm\u00fcl\u00fcn den fazla da g\u00f6rev verilmi\u015ftir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1-\u00d6rnek\nverirsek d\u00fcnya genelinde Hint dininde: Veba \u00f6l\u00fcm, Cehennem, zehir y\u0131lan\nkad\u0131ndan \u00fcst\u00fcnd\u00fcr. Yani kad\u0131n bunlardan daha da k\u00f6t\u00fcd\u00fcr.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

2-\u0130talya:\nKad\u0131nda ruh yoktur. Kad\u0131n ruhsuzdur. Kad\u0131n ahirette dirilmeyecektir, murdard\u0131r\netyemez, g\u00fclemez, O sadece hizmet etmekle g\u00f6revlidir.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

3-Arap\nyar\u0131madas\u0131na gelince: Cahiliye devrinde kad\u0131n\u0131n hali daha da peri\u015fand\u0131,\nde\u011ferini yitirmi\u015f, \u015ferefini kaybetmi\u015f de zevk aleti kabul ediliyor, e\u015fya gibi\nal\u0131n\u0131p sat\u0131l\u0131yordu.<\/strong> <\/strong>K\u0131z \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 diri diri topra\u011fa\ng\u00f6m\u00fcl\u00fcyordu.<\/strong><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0130\u015fte \u00e2lem b\u00f6yle iken b\u00f6yle bir \u00e2lemde\n\u0130slam dini geliyor. Bu dinin kitab\u0131 Kur’an geliyor. Tebli\u011f ile memur  olan\nHz. Muhammed (s.a.v) geliyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kad\u0131n\u0131n da insan oldu\u011funu dini\nsorumluluklar\u0131n\u0131 ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ibadet yapmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini ahirette dirilece\u011fini ve\nHak ve h\u00fcrriyete sahip oldu\u011funu bildiriyordur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u00f6yle bir h\u00fcrriyeti, \u015feref’i\n\u0130slam\nkad\u0131na\nverdi\u011fi\nhalde art\u0131k\nkad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131z \u0130slam’\u0131 de\u011fil de, bat\u0131n\u0131n verdi\u011fi ad\u0131 (Kad\u0131n Haklan\n\u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc) olan asl\u0131nda kad\u0131n\u0131 modern k\u00f6le yapan Haklar\u0131 daha da \u00e7ok\nseviyorlar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Asl\u0131nda Allah (c.c) kendileri i\u00e7in\nbelirledi\u011fi Hak ve \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc be\u011fenmeyip aciz varl\u0131klar\u0131n kendilerine tan\u0131tt\u0131\u011f\u0131\nk\u00f6leli\u011fi kabul ediyorlar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Allah (c.c) belirledi\u011fi \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc Se\u00e7en\nHz. Hatice bug\u00fcn hepimizin \u00f6rne\u011fi olmu\u015ftur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As\u0131l\n\u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc \u0130slam’da yani Allah’a teslim olmakla bulan Hz Hatice (r.anha) annemiz\n<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Rasulullah\u2019a\nilk vahiy gelince e\u015fini sakinle\u015ftiriyor ve onu rahatlat\u0131c\u0131 s\u00f6zler s\u00f6yl\u00fcyordu.<\/strong><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cBeni\n\u00f6rt\u00fcn\u00fcz\u201d \u201cBeni \u00f6rt\u00fcn\u00fcz\u201d dedi\u011finde Rasulullah! Hz. Hatice \u015fu c\u00fcmleleri ile\n\u00fczerindeki y\u00fck\u00fc  hafifletmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yordu.<\/strong><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cHi\u00e7bir\nkorku ve endi\u015fe duymana sebep yok hi\u00e7 \u00fcz\u00fclme Allah senin gibi bir kulunu hi\u00e7bir\nzaman utand\u0131rmaz. Ben biliyorum ki sen s\u00f6z\u00fcn do\u011frusunu s\u00f6ylersin.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Maalesef bug\u00fcn e\u015flerimiz \u0130slam davas\u0131\nu\u011frunda m\u00fccadele ederken erkekler davadan \u00e7ok han\u0131mlar\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmektedirler.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Neden? \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u0130slam kad\u0131na de\u011fer verdi\u011fi\nhalde kad\u0131n \u0130slam’a de\u011fer vermiyor. B\u00f6yle olunca da ailede e\u015fler aras\u0131nda\ns\u00fcrekli hep bir huzursuzluk meydana geliyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cOnda ‘s\u00fck\u00fbn bulup\ndurulman\u0131z’ i\u00e7in, size kendi nefislerinizden e\u015fler yaratmas\u0131 ve aran\u0131zda bir\nsevgi ve merhamet k\u0131lmas\u0131 da, O’nun ayetlerindendir. \u015e\u00fcphesiz bunda,\nd\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnebilen bir kavim i\u00e7in ger\u00e7ekten ayetler vard\u0131r.\u201d (Rum 21)<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Demek ki erkek ve kad\u0131n bilhassa kad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131z\n\u0130slam’la ahlaklanmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 s\u00fcrece aile i\u00e7erisinde ne merhamet ne de sevgiden s\u00f6z\nedilebilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Baz\u0131 kimseler \u201c\u00e7ok dinleyelim az konu\u015fal\u0131m\u201d\ndiye Allah (c.c) bize iki kulak bir a\u011f\u0131z vermi\u015ftir. Derler.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

E\u011fer bu s\u00f6z bir ki\u015fiye y\u00f6neltilecek ise\nerkeklerden ziyade kad\u0131nlar\u0131 y\u00f6netilmesi daha da uygundur. Neden mi diye\nsorarsan\u0131z?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Rasulullah\n(s.a.v) \u015f\u00f6yle buyurdu:<\/strong><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cCehennem\nbana g\u00f6sterildi Bir de ne g\u00f6reyim \u00e7o\u011funlu\u011fu kad\u0131nlardan olu\u015fuyor, nank\u00f6rl\u00fck\nediyorlar.<\/strong><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Denildi\nki: Ey Allah’\u0131n Rasul\u00fc: Allah’a m\u0131 nank\u00f6rl\u00fck ediyorlar.<\/strong><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u015e\u00f6yle\nbuyurdu: kocalar\u0131na nank\u00f6rl\u00fck ediyorlar. Onlardan birine \u00f6m\u00fcr boyu \u0130yilik etsen\nve senden sadece bir yanl\u0131\u015f g\u00f6rse, senden asla bir iyilik g\u00f6rmedim der.\u201d<\/strong><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bu hadis kad\u0131nlar\u0131n durumunun ne kadar\ntehlikeli oldu\u011funu anlatmaktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cAllah, iman edenlere de\nFiravun’un kar\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6rnek verdi. Hani demi\u015fti ki: “Rabbim bana kendi\nkat\u0131nda, cennette bir ev yap; beni Firavun’dan ve onun yapt\u0131klar\u0131ndan kurtar ve\nbeni o zalimler toplulu\u011fundan da kurtar.” (Tahrim 11)<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Evet, bayanlar e\u015flerimiz firavun\nolmad\u0131\u011f\u0131na g\u00f6re Bizlerde asiyeler de\u011filiz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ama bize sorsalar hep e\u015flerimiz su\u00e7lu\nkusurlu. Hepimizin az ya da \u00e7ok kusurlar\u0131 vard\u0131r. Fakat\nbizim sorunumuz kendi kusurlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 \u00f6nemsemeyip ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n hata ve\nkusurlar\u0131n\u0131 b\u00fcy\u00fctmememizde gizlidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201c\u0130lim\n\u00f6\u011frenmek\nher kad\u0131n\nve erke\u011fe\nfarz\u0131\nayn oldu\u011fu\nhalde\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mesela: Kocan kitap okumay\u0131 seven biri ise\nona senin hayat\u0131nda kitaptan ba\u015fka bir \u015fey yok mudur? Okumaktan b\u0131kmad\u0131n m\u0131? Dememelisin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Asl\u0131nda kusur olarak e\u015flerimizle\ng\u00f6rd\u00fcklerimiz kendi eksi\u011fimizdir. Ama i\u015fte biz kad\u0131nlar \u0130slam\u2019dan e\u011fitim\nalmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z i\u00e7in Hak ile me\u015fgul olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zdan bunu fark edemiyoruz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Allah (c.c) bizlere kitab\u0131nda k\u00f6t\u00fc\nkad\u0131nlara da \u00f6rnek vermi\u015ftir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\n\u201cAllah,\nink\u00e2r edenlere, Nuh’un e\u015fini ve Lut’un e\u015fini \u00f6rnek verdi. \u0130kisi de,\nkullar\u0131m\u0131zdan salih olan iki kulumuzun nik\u00e2hlar\u0131 alt\u0131ndayd\u0131; ancak onlara\nihanet ettiler. Bundan dolay\u0131, (kocalar\u0131) kendilerine Allah’tan gelen hi\u00e7 bir\n\u015feyle yarar sa\u011flamad\u0131lar. \u0130kisine de: “Ate\u015fe di\u011fer girenlerle birlikte girin”\ndenildi.\u201d (Tahrim 10)<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Allah (c.c) akledebilen insanlar i\u00e7in ayetleri b\u00f6yle\nA\u00e7\u0131kl\u0131yor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Rasulullah\n(s.a.v) buyurdu ki:<\/strong><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cHangi\nkad\u0131n daha hay\u0131rl\u0131d\u0131r, diye soruldu\u011funda y\u00fcz\u00fcne bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda kocas\u0131n\u0131 mutlu eden,\nemretti\u011fini itaat eden, nefsinde ve mal\u0131nda kocas\u0131n\u0131n ho\u015flanmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015feyleri\nyapmayan ve b\u00f6ylece kocas\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kmayan kad\u0131nd\u0131r, dedi.\u201d<\/strong><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cpeki soruyorum? E\u015flerimiz helal r\u0131z\u0131k\ni\u00e7in \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rken, bize \u0130slami e\u011fitim vermek i\u00e7in e\u011fitim al\u0131rken, acaba bizler\ne\u015fimizin y\u00fck\u00fcn\u00fc hafifletmek mi isteriz, yoksa e\u015flerimize bir de biz mi y\u00fck\nolmak isteriz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Son olarak \u015funlar\u0131 s\u00f6ylemek isterim e\u015fine\ndikkat etmelisin o seni ya cennetin ya da cehennemindir. Ona ne \u015fekilde muamele\nedersen ahirette kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bulacaks\u0131nd\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Rasulullah (s.a.v) buyurdu ki: Bir kad\u0131n be\u015f vakit namaz\u0131n\u0131 k\u0131lar, orucunu tutar, namusunu korur, kocas\u0131na itaat ederse Rabb’inin cennetine gider.\u201d (\u0130bn Hayyam) <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

<\/p>\n\n\n\n

ELHAMDUL\u0130LLAH\u0130RABB\u0130LALEM\u0130N<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

B\u0130SM\u0130LLAH\u0130RRAHMAN\u0130RRAH\u0130M BAYANLARIN D\u0130KKAT\u0130NE! \u201cY\u00dcK OLMAK DE\u011e\u0130L, Y\u00dcK ALMAK GEREK\u201d K\u00e2inat\u0131n mutlak h\u00e2kimi olan y\u00fcce Allah\u2019a hamd, b\u00fct\u00fcn insanlara hitaben cihan\u015f\u00fcmul bir \u015feriat ile g\u00f6nderilen Hazreti Muhammed (s.a.v)\u2019e \u00e2line ashab\u0131na ve \u0130slam nizam\u0131na hayata getirip h\u00e2kim k\u0131lmak i\u00e7in m\u00fccahede ve m\u00fccadele eden t\u00fcm M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlara Salat ve selam olsun. Havva validemiz ile ba\u015flayan kad\u0131nl\u0131k tarihi o g\u00fcnden bug\u00fcne […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":24,"featured_media":4410,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[251],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4409","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-makaleler"],"yoast_head":"\n