B\u0130SM\u0130LLAH\u0130RRAHMAN\u0130RRAH\u0130M<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n
Hamd kendisinden ba\u015fka ilah olmayan, mutlak manada tek g\u00fc\u00e7 ve kudret sahibi olan Allah\u2019a mahsustur. Salat ve selam t\u00fcm peygamberlerin ve onlar\u0131 takip eden tabilerinin \u00fczerine olsun.<\/p>\n
233- Emzirme s\u00fcresini tamamlamak isteyen anneler, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 tam iki y\u0131l emzirirler. Annenin yiyecek ve giyeceklerini geleneklere uygun bi\u00e7imde sa\u011flamak, baban\u0131n g\u00f6revidir. Hi\u00e7 kimseye kapasitesi d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda bir g\u00f6rev y\u00fcklenemez. Ne anne ve ne de baba \u00e7ocu\u011fu y\u00fcz\u00fcnden zarara sokulmaz. Bu y\u00fck\u00fcml\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn ayn\u0131s\u0131 miras\u00e7\u0131ya da d\u00fc\u015fer.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\nE\u011fer ana-baba konu\u015fup anla\u015farak ortak r\u0131zalar\u0131 ile \u00e7ocu\u011fu memeden kesmek isterlerse hi\u00e7birine sorumluluk d\u00fc\u015fmez. E\u011fer \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131za s\u00fct annesi tutmak isterseniz, verece\u011finiz \u00fccreti geleneklere uygun olarak \u00f6dedi\u011finiz takdirde \u00fczerinize sorumluluk d\u00fc\u015fmez.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\nAllah’tan korkun ve Allah’\u0131n yapt\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc bilin.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\nBo\u015fanm\u0131\u015f bir annenin emzikli \u00e7ocu\u011funa kar\u015f\u0131 g\u00f6revi vard\u0131r. Allah bu g\u00f6revi, bizzat omuzlar\u0131na y\u00fcklemi\u015f ve bunu onun f\u0131tr\u00ee \u00f6zelli\u011fine ve \u015fefkatine b\u0131rakmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc kar\u0131-koca uyu\u015fmazl\u0131\u011f\u0131 annedeki bu nitelikleri bozabilir ve o zaman bunun zarar\u0131n\u0131 k\u00f6rpe yavru \u00e7eker. Bundan dolay\u0131 Allah, bu yavrunun bak\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 garantiye ba\u011fl\u0131yor ve bu g\u00f6revi anas\u0131n\u0131n omuzlar\u0131na y\u00fckl\u00fcyor. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc Allah insanlar\u0131, onlar\u0131n kendilerini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcklerinden daha \u00e7ok d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr; onlara kar\u015f\u0131 ana-babalar\u0131ndan daha iyiliksever ve daha \u015fefkatlidir.<\/p>\n
Y\u00fcce Allah, anneyi yeni do\u011fan \u00e7ocu\u011funu iki tam y\u0131l emzirmekle y\u00fck\u00fcml\u00fc tutuyor. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc O, bu s\u00fcrenin \u00e7ocu\u011fun organik ve psikolojik sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan ideal bir s\u00fcre oldu\u011funu biliyor. Bu y\u00fczden “Emzirme s\u00fcresini tamamlamak isteyen anneler” <\/strong>kay\u0131tlamas\u0131n\u0131 getiriyor. G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn bilimsel ara\u015ft\u0131rmalar\u0131, \u00e7ocu\u011fun biyolojik ve psikolojik a\u00e7\u0131dan sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 geli\u015fimi i\u00e7in iki y\u0131ll\u0131k emzirme s\u00fcresinin gerekli oldu\u011funu ortaya koymu\u015flard\u0131r. Fakat y\u00fcce Allah’\u0131n, m\u00fcsl\u00fcman cemaate y\u00f6nelik nimeti, onlar\u0131 bu ger\u00e7e\u011fi bilimsel tecr\u00fcbeleri ile \u00f6\u011freninceye kadar bekleme zorunlulu\u011fundan kurtarm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ilk evresi \u00e7ocukluk olan ortak insanl\u0131k hazinesi, bu uzun tecr\u00fcbe d\u00f6neminin bilgisizli\u011fine, bu bilgisizlik \u00e7ark\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6\u011f\u00fct\u00fcc\u00fc di\u015flilerine b\u0131rak\u0131lacak derecede \u00f6nemsiz de\u011fildir. Y\u00fcce Allah kullar\u0131na, \u00f6zellikle \u015fefkate ve bak\u0131ma muhta\u00e7 olan \u00e7aresiz yavrulara kar\u015f\u0131 merhamet sahibidir.<\/p>\nAnnenin, y\u00fcce Allah taraf\u0131ndan omuzlar\u0131na y\u00fcklenen bu g\u00f6reve kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k \u00e7ocu\u011fun babas\u0131 \u00fczerinde de baz\u0131 haklar\u0131 vard\u0131r. Bu haklar baban\u0131n, geleneklere uygun bi\u00e7imde ve tatl\u0131l\u0131kla kad\u0131n\u0131n yiyece\u011fini ve giyim-ku\u015fam\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flamas\u0131d\u0131r. Bu g\u00f6revde kar\u0131 ile kocan\u0131n her ikisi de ortakt\u0131r. Her ikisinin de bu meme \u00e7a\u011f\u0131ndaki yavruya kar\u015f\u0131 sorumluluklar\u0131 vard\u0131r. Annesi bu yavruya s\u00fct\u00fc ve bak\u0131m\u0131 ile yard\u0131mc\u0131 olacak, babas\u0131 da kendisini \u00e7ocu\u011funun bak\u0131m\u0131na adam\u0131\u015f olan annenin yiyecek ve giyecek ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131layacakt\u0131r. B\u00f6ylece her ikisi de g\u00fc\u00e7lerinin s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131 i\u00e7inde g\u00f6revlerini yerine getirmi\u015f olurlar:<\/p>\n
“Hi\u00e7 kimseye kapasitesi d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda bir g\u00f6rev y\u00fcklenmez.”<\/strong><\/p>\nAyr\u0131ca ana-babadan biri \u00e7ocu\u011fu kar\u015f\u0131 tarafa zarar vermek i\u00e7in koz ya da bahane olarak kullanmamal\u0131d\u0131r:<\/p>\n
“Ne anne ve ne de baba \u00e7ocu\u011fu y\u00fcz\u00fcnden zarara sokulamaz.”<\/strong><\/p>\nBuna g\u00f6re baba, anneyi tehdit ederek \u00e7ocu\u011fa kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ks\u0131z bi\u00e7imde meme vermesini sa\u011flamak i\u00e7in kad\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7ocu\u011funa kar\u015f\u0131 besledi\u011fi sevgiyi, \u015fefkati ve \u00f6zlemi istismar edemeyece\u011fi gibi kad\u0131n da erke\u011fin \u00e7ocu\u011funa y\u00f6nelik babal\u0131k duygular\u0131n\u0131 ve sevgisini y\u00fckl\u00fc maddi kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131klar elde etmek amac\u0131 ile k\u00f6t\u00fcye kullanamaz, s\u00f6m\u00fcremez.<\/p>\n
E\u011fer baba \u00f6l\u00fcrse \u00e7ocu\u011funa kar\u015f\u0131 ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131 y\u00fck\u00fcml\u00fcl\u00fckler, sorumluluk alabilecek miras\u00e7\u0131s\u0131na ge\u00e7er:<\/p>\n
“Bu y\u00fck\u00fcml\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn ayn\u0131s\u0131 miras\u00e7\u0131ya da d\u00fc\u015fer.”<\/strong><\/p>\nB\u00f6yle bir durumda \u00f6len baban\u0131n miras\u00e7\u0131s\u0131, emzikli annenin yiyecek ve giyecek masraflar\u0131n\u0131 geleneklere g\u00f6re ve tatl\u0131l\u0131kla kar\u015f\u0131lamakla y\u00fck\u00fcml\u00fcd\u00fcr. B\u00f6ylece aile-i\u00e7i dayan\u0131\u015fma ger\u00e7ekle\u015fmi\u015f olur. Bu dayan\u0131\u015fman\u0131n yar\u0131s\u0131 miras almakla ve \u00f6b\u00fcr yar\u0131s\u0131 \u00f6len ki\u015finin geride b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131 y\u00fck\u00fcml\u00fcl\u00fcklerini \u00fcstlenmekle yerine gelir.<\/p>\n
B\u00f6ylece babas\u0131 \u00f6len \u00e7ocuk peri\u015fan olmaz. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc her ihtimal kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda hem kendisinin hem de annesinin haklar\u0131 teminat alt\u0131ndad\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Ayet-i celile, \u00e7ocu\u011fun ve annesinin bak\u0131m ve ge\u00e7imini bu \u015fekilde sa\u011flama ba\u011flad\u0131ktan sonra emzirme ile ilgili di\u011fer ayr\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131 sonuca ba\u011flamaya ge\u00e7iyor:<\/p>\n
“E\u011fer ana-baba konu\u015fup anla\u015farak, ortak r\u0131zalar\u0131 ile \u00e7ocu\u011fu memeden kesmek isterlerse hi\u00e7birine sorumluluk d\u00fc\u015fmez.”<\/strong><\/p>\nYani e\u011fer ana ile baba ya da ana ile baban\u0131n yetkili miras\u00e7\u0131s\u0131 \u00e7ocu\u011fu iki y\u0131ll\u0131k s\u00fcre dolmadan \u00f6nce memeden kesmek isterlerse, \u00e7ocu\u011fun sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ile ilgili ya da ba\u015fka bir sebeple b\u00f6yle bir karara varmay\u0131 uygun g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015fler ise bu karar y\u00fcz\u00fcnden sorumlu olmazlar. Yaln\u0131z bu karar\u0131, bak\u0131m\u0131 omuzlar\u0131na y\u00fcklenmi\u015f,g\u00f6zetim y\u00fck\u00fcml\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc s\u0131rtlar\u0131na bindirilmi\u015f olan ki\u015filer, meme \u00e7a\u011f\u0131ndaki yavrunun iyili\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnerek ve aralar\u0131nda konu\u015fup anla\u015farak kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 g\u00f6n\u00fcl r\u0131zas\u0131 ile vermi\u015f olmal\u0131d\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n
Bunun yan\u0131s\u0131ra e\u011fer baba, \u00e7ocu\u011funa \u00fccretli s\u00fct annesi tutmak isterse, e\u011fer \u00e7ocu\u011fun yarar\u0131 bu yoldan ger\u00e7ekle\u015fiyorsa, tutulacak s\u00fct annesinin \u00fccretini tam olarak vermek ve ona kar\u015f\u0131 iyi davranmak \u015fart\u0131 ile bu iste\u011fini yerine getirebilir:<\/p>\n
“E\u011fer \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131za s\u00fctannesi tutmak isterseniz, verece\u011finiz \u00fccreti geleneklere uygun olarak \u00f6dedi\u011finiz takdirde \u00fczerinize sorumluluk d\u00fc\u015fmez.”<\/strong><\/p>\nBurada s\u00f6z\u00fc edilen \u00fccreti tam \u00f6deme \u015fart\u0131, tutulan s\u00fct annenin \u00e7ocu\u011fa m\u00fc\u015ffik davranmas\u0131n\u0131n, onun bak\u0131m ve g\u00f6zetimi hususunda titizlik g\u00f6stermesinin teminat\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Ayet, sonunda meseleyi t\u00fcm\u00fc ile takvaya, o k\u00f6kl\u00fc ve ince bilince ba\u011fl\u0131yor. O bilin\u00e7 ki, ona havale edilen \u015feyler, onsuz ger\u00e7ekle\u015femeyecek \u015feylerdir;<\/p>\n
“Allah’tan korkun ve Allah’\u0131n yapt\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc bilin.”<\/strong><\/p>\nBu bilin\u00e7, ayetin sonunda seslendirilen a\u011f\u0131rl\u0131kl\u0131 teminatt\u0131r, asl\u0131nda tek ger\u00e7ek teminat budur.<\/p>\n
DUL KADINLAR<\/strong><\/p>\nBo\u015fanm\u0131\u015f kad\u0131nlara ve bo\u015fanman\u0131n arkada b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131 somut problemlere ili\u015fkin yasal d\u00fczenlemeler a\u00e7\u0131kland\u0131ktan sonra kocas\u0131 \u00f6len kad\u0131nlara; bunlar\u0131n bekleme s\u00fcrelerine, bekleme s\u00fcrelerinin dolmas\u0131ndan sonra kendilerine yap\u0131lacak evlenme tekliflerine ve bekleme s\u00fcresi i\u00e7inde bu tekliflerin \u00e7\u0131tlat\u0131lmas\u0131na ili\u015fkin h\u00fck\u00fcmlerin anlat\u0131lmas\u0131na ge\u00e7iliyor:<\/p>\n
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B\u0130SM\u0130LLAH\u0130RRAHMAN\u0130RRAH\u0130M Hamd kendisinden ba\u015fka ilah olmayan, mutlak manada tek g\u00fc\u00e7 ve kudret sahibi olan Allah\u2019a mahsustur. Salat ve selam t\u00fcm peygamberlerin ve onlar\u0131 takip eden tabilerinin \u00fczerine olsun. 233- Emzirme s\u00fcresini tamamlamak isteyen anneler, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 tam iki y\u0131l emzirirler. Annenin yiyecek ve giyeceklerini geleneklere uygun bi\u00e7imde sa\u011flamak, baban\u0131n g\u00f6revidir. Hi\u00e7 kimseye kapasitesi d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda bir […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":6197,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6195","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-gundem"],"yoast_head":"\n
SEYY\u0130D KUTUB BAKI\u015e A\u00c7ISIYLA BAKARA SURES\u0130 233. AYET Nedir? • Ebrar Medya<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"B\u0130SM\u0130LLAH\u0130RRAHMAN\u0130RRAH\u0130MHamd kendisinden ba\u015fka ilah olmayan, mutlak manada tek g\u00fc\u00e7 ve kudret sahibi olan Allah\u2019a mahsustur. Salat ve selam t\u00fcm peygamberlerin ve onlar\u0131 takip eden tabilerinin \u00fczerine olsun.233- Emzirme s\u00fcresini tamamlamak isteyen anneler, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 tam iki y\u0131l emzirirler. Annenin yiyecek ve giyeceklerini geleneklere uygun bi\u00e7imde sa\u011flamak, baban\u0131n g\u00f6revidir. Hi\u00e7 kimseye kapasitesi d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda bir g\u00f6rev y\u00fcklenemez. Ne anne ve ne de baba \u00e7ocu\u011fu y\u00fcz\u00fcnden zarara sokulmaz. Bu y\u00fck\u00fcml\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn ayn\u0131s\u0131 miras\u00e7\u0131ya da d\u00fc\u015fer.E\u011fer ana-baba konu\u015fup anla\u015farak ortak r\u0131zalar\u0131 ile \u00e7ocu\u011fu memeden kesmek isterlerse hi\u00e7birine sorumluluk d\u00fc\u015fmez. E\u011fer \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131za s\u00fct annesi tutmak isterseniz, verece\u011finiz \u00fccreti geleneklere uygun olarak \u00f6dedi\u011finiz takdirde \u00fczerinize sorumluluk d\u00fc\u015fmez.Allah'tan korkun ve Allah'\u0131n yapt\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc bilin.Bo\u015fanm\u0131\u015f bir annenin emzikli \u00e7ocu\u011funa kar\u015f\u0131 g\u00f6revi vard\u0131r. Allah bu g\u00f6revi, bizzat omuzlar\u0131na y\u00fcklemi\u015f ve bunu onun f\u0131tr\u00ee \u00f6zelli\u011fine ve \u015fefkatine b\u0131rakmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc kar\u0131-koca uyu\u015fmazl\u0131\u011f\u0131 annedeki bu nitelikleri bozabilir ve o zaman bunun zarar\u0131n\u0131 k\u00f6rpe yavru \u00e7eker. Bundan dolay\u0131 Allah, bu yavrunun bak\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 garantiye ba\u011fl\u0131yor ve bu g\u00f6revi anas\u0131n\u0131n omuzlar\u0131na y\u00fckl\u00fcyor. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc Allah insanlar\u0131, onlar\u0131n kendilerini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcklerinden daha \u00e7ok d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr; onlara kar\u015f\u0131 ana-babalar\u0131ndan daha iyiliksever ve daha \u015fefkatlidir.Y\u00fcce Allah, anneyi yeni do\u011fan \u00e7ocu\u011funu iki tam y\u0131l emzirmekle y\u00fck\u00fcml\u00fc tutuyor. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc O, bu s\u00fcrenin \u00e7ocu\u011fun organik ve psikolojik sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan ideal bir s\u00fcre oldu\u011funu biliyor. Bu y\u00fczden "Emzirme s\u00fcresini tamamlamak isteyen anneler" kay\u0131tlamas\u0131n\u0131 getiriyor. G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn bilimsel ara\u015ft\u0131rmalar\u0131, \u00e7ocu\u011fun biyolojik ve psikolojik a\u00e7\u0131dan sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 geli\u015fimi i\u00e7in iki y\u0131ll\u0131k emzirme s\u00fcresinin gerekli oldu\u011funu ortaya koymu\u015flard\u0131r. Fakat y\u00fcce Allah'\u0131n, m\u00fcsl\u00fcman cemaate y\u00f6nelik nimeti, onlar\u0131 bu ger\u00e7e\u011fi bilimsel tecr\u00fcbeleri ile \u00f6\u011freninceye kadar bekleme zorunlulu\u011fundan kurtarm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ilk evresi \u00e7ocukluk olan ortak insanl\u0131k hazinesi, bu uzun tecr\u00fcbe d\u00f6neminin bilgisizli\u011fine, bu bilgisizlik \u00e7ark\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6\u011f\u00fct\u00fcc\u00fc di\u015flilerine b\u0131rak\u0131lacak derecede \u00f6nemsiz de\u011fildir. Y\u00fcce Allah kullar\u0131na, \u00f6zellikle \u015fefkate ve bak\u0131ma muhta\u00e7 olan \u00e7aresiz yavrulara kar\u015f\u0131 merhamet sahibidir.Annenin, y\u00fcce Allah taraf\u0131ndan omuzlar\u0131na y\u00fcklenen bu g\u00f6reve kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k \u00e7ocu\u011fun babas\u0131 \u00fczerinde de baz\u0131 haklar\u0131 vard\u0131r. Bu haklar baban\u0131n, geleneklere uygun bi\u00e7imde ve tatl\u0131l\u0131kla kad\u0131n\u0131n yiyece\u011fini ve giyim-ku\u015fam\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flamas\u0131d\u0131r. Bu g\u00f6revde kar\u0131 ile kocan\u0131n her ikisi de ortakt\u0131r. Her ikisinin de bu meme \u00e7a\u011f\u0131ndaki yavruya kar\u015f\u0131 sorumluluklar\u0131 vard\u0131r. Annesi bu yavruya s\u00fct\u00fc ve bak\u0131m\u0131 ile yard\u0131mc\u0131 olacak, babas\u0131 da kendisini \u00e7ocu\u011funun bak\u0131m\u0131na adam\u0131\u015f olan annenin yiyecek ve giyecek ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131layacakt\u0131r. B\u00f6ylece her ikisi de g\u00fc\u00e7lerinin s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131 i\u00e7inde g\u00f6revlerini yerine getirmi\u015f olurlar:"Hi\u00e7 kimseye kapasitesi d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda bir g\u00f6rev y\u00fcklenmez."Ayr\u0131ca ana-babadan biri \u00e7ocu\u011fu kar\u015f\u0131 tarafa zarar vermek i\u00e7in koz ya da bahane olarak kullanmamal\u0131d\u0131r:"Ne anne ve ne de baba \u00e7ocu\u011fu y\u00fcz\u00fcnden zarara sokulamaz."Buna g\u00f6re baba, anneyi tehdit ederek \u00e7ocu\u011fa kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ks\u0131z bi\u00e7imde meme vermesini sa\u011flamak i\u00e7in kad\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7ocu\u011funa kar\u015f\u0131 besledi\u011fi sevgiyi, \u015fefkati ve \u00f6zlemi istismar edemeyece\u011fi gibi kad\u0131n da erke\u011fin \u00e7ocu\u011funa y\u00f6nelik babal\u0131k duygular\u0131n\u0131 ve sevgisini y\u00fckl\u00fc maddi kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131klar elde etmek amac\u0131 ile k\u00f6t\u00fcye kullanamaz, s\u00f6m\u00fcremez.E\u011fer baba \u00f6l\u00fcrse \u00e7ocu\u011funa kar\u015f\u0131 ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131 y\u00fck\u00fcml\u00fcl\u00fckler, sorumluluk alabilecek miras\u00e7\u0131s\u0131na ge\u00e7er:"Bu y\u00fck\u00fcml\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn ayn\u0131s\u0131 miras\u00e7\u0131ya da d\u00fc\u015fer."B\u00f6yle bir durumda \u00f6len baban\u0131n miras\u00e7\u0131s\u0131, emzikli annenin yiyecek ve giyecek masraflar\u0131n\u0131 geleneklere g\u00f6re ve tatl\u0131l\u0131kla kar\u015f\u0131lamakla y\u00fck\u00fcml\u00fcd\u00fcr. B\u00f6ylece aile-i\u00e7i dayan\u0131\u015fma ger\u00e7ekle\u015fmi\u015f olur. Bu dayan\u0131\u015fman\u0131n yar\u0131s\u0131 miras almakla ve \u00f6b\u00fcr yar\u0131s\u0131 \u00f6len ki\u015finin geride b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131 y\u00fck\u00fcml\u00fcl\u00fcklerini \u00fcstlenmekle yerine gelir.B\u00f6ylece babas\u0131 \u00f6len \u00e7ocuk peri\u015fan olmaz. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc her ihtimal kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda hem kendisinin hem de annesinin haklar\u0131 teminat alt\u0131ndad\u0131r.Ayet-i celile, \u00e7ocu\u011fun ve annesinin bak\u0131m ve ge\u00e7imini bu \u015fekilde sa\u011flama ba\u011flad\u0131ktan sonra emzirme ile ilgili di\u011fer ayr\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131 sonuca ba\u011flamaya ge\u00e7iyor:"E\u011fer ana-baba konu\u015fup anla\u015farak, ortak r\u0131zalar\u0131 ile \u00e7ocu\u011fu memeden kesmek isterlerse hi\u00e7birine sorumluluk d\u00fc\u015fmez."Yani e\u011fer ana ile baba ya da ana ile baban\u0131n yetkili miras\u00e7\u0131s\u0131 \u00e7ocu\u011fu iki y\u0131ll\u0131k s\u00fcre dolmadan \u00f6nce memeden kesmek isterlerse, \u00e7ocu\u011fun sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ile ilgili ya da ba\u015fka bir sebeple b\u00f6yle bir karara varmay\u0131 uygun g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015fler ise bu karar y\u00fcz\u00fcnden sorumlu olmazlar. Yaln\u0131z bu karar\u0131, bak\u0131m\u0131 omuzlar\u0131na y\u00fcklenmi\u015f,g\u00f6zetim y\u00fck\u00fcml\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc s\u0131rtlar\u0131na bindirilmi\u015f olan ki\u015filer, meme \u00e7a\u011f\u0131ndaki yavrunun iyili\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnerek ve aralar\u0131nda konu\u015fup anla\u015farak kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 g\u00f6n\u00fcl r\u0131zas\u0131 ile vermi\u015f olmal\u0131d\u0131rlar.Bunun yan\u0131s\u0131ra e\u011fer baba, \u00e7ocu\u011funa \u00fccretli s\u00fct annesi tutmak isterse, e\u011fer \u00e7ocu\u011fun yarar\u0131 bu yoldan ger\u00e7ekle\u015fiyorsa, tutulacak s\u00fct annesinin \u00fccretini tam olarak vermek ve ona kar\u015f\u0131 iyi davranmak \u015fart\u0131 ile bu iste\u011fini yerine getirebilir:"E\u011fer \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131za s\u00fctannesi tutmak isterseniz, verece\u011finiz \u00fccreti geleneklere uygun olarak \u00f6dedi\u011finiz takdirde \u00fczerinize sorumluluk d\u00fc\u015fmez."Burada s\u00f6z\u00fc edilen \u00fccreti tam \u00f6deme \u015fart\u0131, tutulan s\u00fct annenin \u00e7ocu\u011fa m\u00fc\u015ffik davranmas\u0131n\u0131n, onun bak\u0131m ve g\u00f6zetimi hususunda titizlik g\u00f6stermesinin teminat\u0131d\u0131r.Ayet, sonunda meseleyi t\u00fcm\u00fc ile takvaya, o k\u00f6kl\u00fc ve ince bilince ba\u011fl\u0131yor. O bilin\u00e7 ki, ona havale edilen \u015feyler, onsuz ger\u00e7ekle\u015femeyecek \u015feylerdir;"Allah'tan korkun ve Allah'\u0131n yapt\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc bilin."Bu bilin\u00e7, ayetin sonunda seslendirilen a\u011f\u0131rl\u0131kl\u0131 teminatt\u0131r, asl\u0131nda tek ger\u00e7ek teminat budur.DUL KADINLARBo\u015fanm\u0131\u015f kad\u0131nlara ve bo\u015fanman\u0131n arkada b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131 somut problemlere ili\u015fkin yasal d\u00fczenlemeler a\u00e7\u0131kland\u0131ktan sonra kocas\u0131 \u00f6len kad\u0131nlara; bunlar\u0131n bekleme s\u00fcrelerine, bekleme s\u00fcrelerinin dolmas\u0131ndan sonra kendilerine yap\u0131lacak evlenme tekliflerine ve bekleme s\u00fcresi i\u00e7inde bu tekliflerin \u00e7\u0131tlat\u0131lmas\u0131na ili\u015fkin h\u00fck\u00fcmlerin anlat\u0131lmas\u0131na ge\u00e7iliyor:\" \/>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.ebrarmedya.com\/seyyid-kutub-bakis-acisiyla-bakara-suresi-233-ayet\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"tr_TR\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"SEYY\u0130D KUTUB BAKI\u015e A\u00c7ISIYLA BAKARA SURES\u0130 233. AYET Nedir? • Ebrar Medya\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"B\u0130SM\u0130LLAH\u0130RRAHMAN\u0130RRAH\u0130MHamd kendisinden ba\u015fka ilah olmayan, mutlak manada tek g\u00fc\u00e7 ve kudret sahibi olan Allah\u2019a mahsustur. Salat ve selam t\u00fcm peygamberlerin ve onlar\u0131 takip eden tabilerinin \u00fczerine olsun.233- Emzirme s\u00fcresini tamamlamak isteyen anneler, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 tam iki y\u0131l emzirirler. Annenin yiyecek ve giyeceklerini geleneklere uygun bi\u00e7imde sa\u011flamak, baban\u0131n g\u00f6revidir. Hi\u00e7 kimseye kapasitesi d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda bir g\u00f6rev y\u00fcklenemez. Ne anne ve ne de baba \u00e7ocu\u011fu y\u00fcz\u00fcnden zarara sokulmaz. Bu y\u00fck\u00fcml\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn ayn\u0131s\u0131 miras\u00e7\u0131ya da d\u00fc\u015fer.E\u011fer ana-baba konu\u015fup anla\u015farak ortak r\u0131zalar\u0131 ile \u00e7ocu\u011fu memeden kesmek isterlerse hi\u00e7birine sorumluluk d\u00fc\u015fmez. E\u011fer \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131za s\u00fct annesi tutmak isterseniz, verece\u011finiz \u00fccreti geleneklere uygun olarak \u00f6dedi\u011finiz takdirde \u00fczerinize sorumluluk d\u00fc\u015fmez.Allah'tan korkun ve Allah'\u0131n yapt\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc bilin.Bo\u015fanm\u0131\u015f bir annenin emzikli \u00e7ocu\u011funa kar\u015f\u0131 g\u00f6revi vard\u0131r. Allah bu g\u00f6revi, bizzat omuzlar\u0131na y\u00fcklemi\u015f ve bunu onun f\u0131tr\u00ee \u00f6zelli\u011fine ve \u015fefkatine b\u0131rakmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc kar\u0131-koca uyu\u015fmazl\u0131\u011f\u0131 annedeki bu nitelikleri bozabilir ve o zaman bunun zarar\u0131n\u0131 k\u00f6rpe yavru \u00e7eker. Bundan dolay\u0131 Allah, bu yavrunun bak\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 garantiye ba\u011fl\u0131yor ve bu g\u00f6revi anas\u0131n\u0131n omuzlar\u0131na y\u00fckl\u00fcyor. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc Allah insanlar\u0131, onlar\u0131n kendilerini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcklerinden daha \u00e7ok d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr; onlara kar\u015f\u0131 ana-babalar\u0131ndan daha iyiliksever ve daha \u015fefkatlidir.Y\u00fcce Allah, anneyi yeni do\u011fan \u00e7ocu\u011funu iki tam y\u0131l emzirmekle y\u00fck\u00fcml\u00fc tutuyor. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc O, bu s\u00fcrenin \u00e7ocu\u011fun organik ve psikolojik sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan ideal bir s\u00fcre oldu\u011funu biliyor. Bu y\u00fczden "Emzirme s\u00fcresini tamamlamak isteyen anneler" kay\u0131tlamas\u0131n\u0131 getiriyor. G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn bilimsel ara\u015ft\u0131rmalar\u0131, \u00e7ocu\u011fun biyolojik ve psikolojik a\u00e7\u0131dan sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 geli\u015fimi i\u00e7in iki y\u0131ll\u0131k emzirme s\u00fcresinin gerekli oldu\u011funu ortaya koymu\u015flard\u0131r. Fakat y\u00fcce Allah'\u0131n, m\u00fcsl\u00fcman cemaate y\u00f6nelik nimeti, onlar\u0131 bu ger\u00e7e\u011fi bilimsel tecr\u00fcbeleri ile \u00f6\u011freninceye kadar bekleme zorunlulu\u011fundan kurtarm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ilk evresi \u00e7ocukluk olan ortak insanl\u0131k hazinesi, bu uzun tecr\u00fcbe d\u00f6neminin bilgisizli\u011fine, bu bilgisizlik \u00e7ark\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6\u011f\u00fct\u00fcc\u00fc di\u015flilerine b\u0131rak\u0131lacak derecede \u00f6nemsiz de\u011fildir. Y\u00fcce Allah kullar\u0131na, \u00f6zellikle \u015fefkate ve bak\u0131ma muhta\u00e7 olan \u00e7aresiz yavrulara kar\u015f\u0131 merhamet sahibidir.Annenin, y\u00fcce Allah taraf\u0131ndan omuzlar\u0131na y\u00fcklenen bu g\u00f6reve kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k \u00e7ocu\u011fun babas\u0131 \u00fczerinde de baz\u0131 haklar\u0131 vard\u0131r. Bu haklar baban\u0131n, geleneklere uygun bi\u00e7imde ve tatl\u0131l\u0131kla kad\u0131n\u0131n yiyece\u011fini ve giyim-ku\u015fam\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flamas\u0131d\u0131r. Bu g\u00f6revde kar\u0131 ile kocan\u0131n her ikisi de ortakt\u0131r. Her ikisinin de bu meme \u00e7a\u011f\u0131ndaki yavruya kar\u015f\u0131 sorumluluklar\u0131 vard\u0131r. Annesi bu yavruya s\u00fct\u00fc ve bak\u0131m\u0131 ile yard\u0131mc\u0131 olacak, babas\u0131 da kendisini \u00e7ocu\u011funun bak\u0131m\u0131na adam\u0131\u015f olan annenin yiyecek ve giyecek ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131layacakt\u0131r. B\u00f6ylece her ikisi de g\u00fc\u00e7lerinin s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131 i\u00e7inde g\u00f6revlerini yerine getirmi\u015f olurlar:"Hi\u00e7 kimseye kapasitesi d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda bir g\u00f6rev y\u00fcklenmez."Ayr\u0131ca ana-babadan biri \u00e7ocu\u011fu kar\u015f\u0131 tarafa zarar vermek i\u00e7in koz ya da bahane olarak kullanmamal\u0131d\u0131r:"Ne anne ve ne de baba \u00e7ocu\u011fu y\u00fcz\u00fcnden zarara sokulamaz."Buna g\u00f6re baba, anneyi tehdit ederek \u00e7ocu\u011fa kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ks\u0131z bi\u00e7imde meme vermesini sa\u011flamak i\u00e7in kad\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7ocu\u011funa kar\u015f\u0131 besledi\u011fi sevgiyi, \u015fefkati ve \u00f6zlemi istismar edemeyece\u011fi gibi kad\u0131n da erke\u011fin \u00e7ocu\u011funa y\u00f6nelik babal\u0131k duygular\u0131n\u0131 ve sevgisini y\u00fckl\u00fc maddi kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131klar elde etmek amac\u0131 ile k\u00f6t\u00fcye kullanamaz, s\u00f6m\u00fcremez.E\u011fer baba \u00f6l\u00fcrse \u00e7ocu\u011funa kar\u015f\u0131 ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131 y\u00fck\u00fcml\u00fcl\u00fckler, sorumluluk alabilecek miras\u00e7\u0131s\u0131na ge\u00e7er:"Bu y\u00fck\u00fcml\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn ayn\u0131s\u0131 miras\u00e7\u0131ya da d\u00fc\u015fer."B\u00f6yle bir durumda \u00f6len baban\u0131n miras\u00e7\u0131s\u0131, emzikli annenin yiyecek ve giyecek masraflar\u0131n\u0131 geleneklere g\u00f6re ve tatl\u0131l\u0131kla kar\u015f\u0131lamakla y\u00fck\u00fcml\u00fcd\u00fcr. B\u00f6ylece aile-i\u00e7i dayan\u0131\u015fma ger\u00e7ekle\u015fmi\u015f olur. Bu dayan\u0131\u015fman\u0131n yar\u0131s\u0131 miras almakla ve \u00f6b\u00fcr yar\u0131s\u0131 \u00f6len ki\u015finin geride b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131 y\u00fck\u00fcml\u00fcl\u00fcklerini \u00fcstlenmekle yerine gelir.B\u00f6ylece babas\u0131 \u00f6len \u00e7ocuk peri\u015fan olmaz. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc her ihtimal kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda hem kendisinin hem de annesinin haklar\u0131 teminat alt\u0131ndad\u0131r.Ayet-i celile, \u00e7ocu\u011fun ve annesinin bak\u0131m ve ge\u00e7imini bu \u015fekilde sa\u011flama ba\u011flad\u0131ktan sonra emzirme ile ilgili di\u011fer ayr\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131 sonuca ba\u011flamaya ge\u00e7iyor:"E\u011fer ana-baba konu\u015fup anla\u015farak, ortak r\u0131zalar\u0131 ile \u00e7ocu\u011fu memeden kesmek isterlerse hi\u00e7birine sorumluluk d\u00fc\u015fmez."Yani e\u011fer ana ile baba ya da ana ile baban\u0131n yetkili miras\u00e7\u0131s\u0131 \u00e7ocu\u011fu iki y\u0131ll\u0131k s\u00fcre dolmadan \u00f6nce memeden kesmek isterlerse, \u00e7ocu\u011fun sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ile ilgili ya da ba\u015fka bir sebeple b\u00f6yle bir karara varmay\u0131 uygun g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015fler ise bu karar y\u00fcz\u00fcnden sorumlu olmazlar. Yaln\u0131z bu karar\u0131, bak\u0131m\u0131 omuzlar\u0131na y\u00fcklenmi\u015f,g\u00f6zetim y\u00fck\u00fcml\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc s\u0131rtlar\u0131na bindirilmi\u015f olan ki\u015filer, meme \u00e7a\u011f\u0131ndaki yavrunun iyili\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnerek ve aralar\u0131nda konu\u015fup anla\u015farak kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 g\u00f6n\u00fcl r\u0131zas\u0131 ile vermi\u015f olmal\u0131d\u0131rlar.Bunun yan\u0131s\u0131ra e\u011fer baba, \u00e7ocu\u011funa \u00fccretli s\u00fct annesi tutmak isterse, e\u011fer \u00e7ocu\u011fun yarar\u0131 bu yoldan ger\u00e7ekle\u015fiyorsa, tutulacak s\u00fct annesinin \u00fccretini tam olarak vermek ve ona kar\u015f\u0131 iyi davranmak \u015fart\u0131 ile bu iste\u011fini yerine getirebilir:"E\u011fer \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131za s\u00fctannesi tutmak isterseniz, verece\u011finiz \u00fccreti geleneklere uygun olarak \u00f6dedi\u011finiz takdirde \u00fczerinize sorumluluk d\u00fc\u015fmez."Burada s\u00f6z\u00fc edilen \u00fccreti tam \u00f6deme \u015fart\u0131, tutulan s\u00fct annenin \u00e7ocu\u011fa m\u00fc\u015ffik davranmas\u0131n\u0131n, onun bak\u0131m ve g\u00f6zetimi hususunda titizlik g\u00f6stermesinin teminat\u0131d\u0131r.Ayet, sonunda meseleyi t\u00fcm\u00fc ile takvaya, o k\u00f6kl\u00fc ve ince bilince ba\u011fl\u0131yor. O bilin\u00e7 ki, ona havale edilen \u015feyler, onsuz ger\u00e7ekle\u015femeyecek \u015feylerdir;"Allah'tan korkun ve Allah'\u0131n yapt\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc bilin."Bu bilin\u00e7, ayetin sonunda seslendirilen a\u011f\u0131rl\u0131kl\u0131 teminatt\u0131r, asl\u0131nda tek ger\u00e7ek teminat budur.DUL KADINLARBo\u015fanm\u0131\u015f kad\u0131nlara ve bo\u015fanman\u0131n arkada b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131 somut problemlere ili\u015fkin yasal d\u00fczenlemeler a\u00e7\u0131kland\u0131ktan sonra kocas\u0131 \u00f6len kad\u0131nlara; bunlar\u0131n bekleme s\u00fcrelerine, bekleme s\u00fcrelerinin dolmas\u0131ndan sonra kendilerine yap\u0131lacak evlenme tekliflerine ve bekleme s\u00fcresi i\u00e7inde bu tekliflerin \u00e7\u0131tlat\u0131lmas\u0131na ili\u015fkin h\u00fck\u00fcmlerin anlat\u0131lmas\u0131na ge\u00e7iliyor:\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:url\" content=\"https:\/\/www.ebrarmedya.com\/seyyid-kutub-bakis-acisiyla-bakara-suresi-233-ayet\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:site_name\" content=\"Ebrar Medya\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:publisher\" content=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/ebrarmedyacom\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:published_time\" content=\"2019-08-09T07:44:40+00:00\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:modified_time\" content=\"2019-08-09T07:48:02+00:00\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:image\" content=\"https:\/\/www.ebrarmedya.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/SEYY\u0130D-KUTUB-TASLAK-8.jpg\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:width\" content=\"730\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:height\" content=\"360\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:type\" content=\"image\/jpeg\" \/>\n<meta name=\"author\" content=\"EBRAR MEDYA\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:card\" content=\"summary_large_image\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:creator\" content=\"@ebrarmedyacom\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:site\" content=\"@ebrarmedyacom\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:label1\" content=\"Yazan:\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data1\" content=\"EBRAR MEDYA\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:label2\" content=\"Tahmini okuma s\u00fcresi\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data2\" content=\"6 dakika\" \/>\n<script type=\"application\/ld+json\" class=\"yoast-schema-graph\">{\"@context\":\"https:\/\/schema.org\",\"@graph\":[{\"@type\":\"Article\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.ebrarmedya.com\/seyyid-kutub-bakis-acisiyla-bakara-suresi-233-ayet\/#article\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.ebrarmedya.com\/seyyid-kutub-bakis-acisiyla-bakara-suresi-233-ayet\/\"},\"author\":{\"name\":\"EBRAR MEDYA\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.ebrarmedya.com\/#\/schema\/person\/465b3fc234a943bf45881579159c57d6\"},\"headline\":\"SEYY\u0130D KUTUB BAKI\u015e A\u00c7ISIYLA BAKARA SURES\u0130 233. 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AYET Nedir? • Ebrar Medya\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.ebrarmedya.com\/#website\"},\"datePublished\":\"2019-08-09T07:44:40+00:00\",\"dateModified\":\"2019-08-09T07:48:02+00:00\",\"description\":\"B\u0130SM\u0130LLAH\u0130RRAHMAN\u0130RRAH\u0130MHamd kendisinden ba\u015fka ilah olmayan, mutlak manada tek g\u00fc\u00e7 ve kudret sahibi olan Allah\u2019a mahsustur. Salat ve selam t\u00fcm peygamberlerin ve onlar\u0131 takip eden tabilerinin \u00fczerine olsun.233- Emzirme s\u00fcresini tamamlamak isteyen anneler, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 tam iki y\u0131l emzirirler. Annenin yiyecek ve giyeceklerini geleneklere uygun bi\u00e7imde sa\u011flamak, baban\u0131n g\u00f6revidir. Hi\u00e7 kimseye kapasitesi d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda bir g\u00f6rev y\u00fcklenemez. Ne anne ve ne de baba \u00e7ocu\u011fu y\u00fcz\u00fcnden zarara sokulmaz. Bu y\u00fck\u00fcml\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn ayn\u0131s\u0131 miras\u00e7\u0131ya da d\u00fc\u015fer.E\u011fer ana-baba konu\u015fup anla\u015farak ortak r\u0131zalar\u0131 ile \u00e7ocu\u011fu memeden kesmek isterlerse hi\u00e7birine sorumluluk d\u00fc\u015fmez. E\u011fer \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131za s\u00fct annesi tutmak isterseniz, verece\u011finiz \u00fccreti geleneklere uygun olarak \u00f6dedi\u011finiz takdirde \u00fczerinize sorumluluk d\u00fc\u015fmez.Allah'tan korkun ve Allah'\u0131n yapt\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc bilin.Bo\u015fanm\u0131\u015f bir annenin emzikli \u00e7ocu\u011funa kar\u015f\u0131 g\u00f6revi vard\u0131r. Allah bu g\u00f6revi, bizzat omuzlar\u0131na y\u00fcklemi\u015f ve bunu onun f\u0131tr\u00ee \u00f6zelli\u011fine ve \u015fefkatine b\u0131rakmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc kar\u0131-koca uyu\u015fmazl\u0131\u011f\u0131 annedeki bu nitelikleri bozabilir ve o zaman bunun zarar\u0131n\u0131 k\u00f6rpe yavru \u00e7eker. Bundan dolay\u0131 Allah, bu yavrunun bak\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 garantiye ba\u011fl\u0131yor ve bu g\u00f6revi anas\u0131n\u0131n omuzlar\u0131na y\u00fckl\u00fcyor. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc Allah insanlar\u0131, onlar\u0131n kendilerini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcklerinden daha \u00e7ok d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr; onlara kar\u015f\u0131 ana-babalar\u0131ndan daha iyiliksever ve daha \u015fefkatlidir.Y\u00fcce Allah, anneyi yeni do\u011fan \u00e7ocu\u011funu iki tam y\u0131l emzirmekle y\u00fck\u00fcml\u00fc tutuyor. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc O, bu s\u00fcrenin \u00e7ocu\u011fun organik ve psikolojik sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan ideal bir s\u00fcre oldu\u011funu biliyor. Bu y\u00fczden \\\"Emzirme s\u00fcresini tamamlamak isteyen anneler\\\" kay\u0131tlamas\u0131n\u0131 getiriyor. G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn bilimsel ara\u015ft\u0131rmalar\u0131, \u00e7ocu\u011fun biyolojik ve psikolojik a\u00e7\u0131dan sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 geli\u015fimi i\u00e7in iki y\u0131ll\u0131k emzirme s\u00fcresinin gerekli oldu\u011funu ortaya koymu\u015flard\u0131r. Fakat y\u00fcce Allah'\u0131n, m\u00fcsl\u00fcman cemaate y\u00f6nelik nimeti, onlar\u0131 bu ger\u00e7e\u011fi bilimsel tecr\u00fcbeleri ile \u00f6\u011freninceye kadar bekleme zorunlulu\u011fundan kurtarm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ilk evresi \u00e7ocukluk olan ortak insanl\u0131k hazinesi, bu uzun tecr\u00fcbe d\u00f6neminin bilgisizli\u011fine, bu bilgisizlik \u00e7ark\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6\u011f\u00fct\u00fcc\u00fc di\u015flilerine b\u0131rak\u0131lacak derecede \u00f6nemsiz de\u011fildir. Y\u00fcce Allah kullar\u0131na, \u00f6zellikle \u015fefkate ve bak\u0131ma muhta\u00e7 olan \u00e7aresiz yavrulara kar\u015f\u0131 merhamet sahibidir.Annenin, y\u00fcce Allah taraf\u0131ndan omuzlar\u0131na y\u00fcklenen bu g\u00f6reve kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k \u00e7ocu\u011fun babas\u0131 \u00fczerinde de baz\u0131 haklar\u0131 vard\u0131r. Bu haklar baban\u0131n, geleneklere uygun bi\u00e7imde ve tatl\u0131l\u0131kla kad\u0131n\u0131n yiyece\u011fini ve giyim-ku\u015fam\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flamas\u0131d\u0131r. Bu g\u00f6revde kar\u0131 ile kocan\u0131n her ikisi de ortakt\u0131r. Her ikisinin de bu meme \u00e7a\u011f\u0131ndaki yavruya kar\u015f\u0131 sorumluluklar\u0131 vard\u0131r. Annesi bu yavruya s\u00fct\u00fc ve bak\u0131m\u0131 ile yard\u0131mc\u0131 olacak, babas\u0131 da kendisini \u00e7ocu\u011funun bak\u0131m\u0131na adam\u0131\u015f olan annenin yiyecek ve giyecek ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131layacakt\u0131r. B\u00f6ylece her ikisi de g\u00fc\u00e7lerinin s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131 i\u00e7inde g\u00f6revlerini yerine getirmi\u015f olurlar:\\\"Hi\u00e7 kimseye kapasitesi d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda bir g\u00f6rev y\u00fcklenmez.\\\"Ayr\u0131ca ana-babadan biri \u00e7ocu\u011fu kar\u015f\u0131 tarafa zarar vermek i\u00e7in koz ya da bahane olarak kullanmamal\u0131d\u0131r:\\\"Ne anne ve ne de baba \u00e7ocu\u011fu y\u00fcz\u00fcnden zarara sokulamaz.\\\"Buna g\u00f6re baba, anneyi tehdit ederek \u00e7ocu\u011fa kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ks\u0131z bi\u00e7imde meme vermesini sa\u011flamak i\u00e7in kad\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7ocu\u011funa kar\u015f\u0131 besledi\u011fi sevgiyi, \u015fefkati ve \u00f6zlemi istismar edemeyece\u011fi gibi kad\u0131n da erke\u011fin \u00e7ocu\u011funa y\u00f6nelik babal\u0131k duygular\u0131n\u0131 ve sevgisini y\u00fckl\u00fc maddi kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131klar elde etmek amac\u0131 ile k\u00f6t\u00fcye kullanamaz, s\u00f6m\u00fcremez.E\u011fer baba \u00f6l\u00fcrse \u00e7ocu\u011funa kar\u015f\u0131 ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131 y\u00fck\u00fcml\u00fcl\u00fckler, sorumluluk alabilecek miras\u00e7\u0131s\u0131na ge\u00e7er:\\\"Bu y\u00fck\u00fcml\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn ayn\u0131s\u0131 miras\u00e7\u0131ya da d\u00fc\u015fer.\\\"B\u00f6yle bir durumda \u00f6len baban\u0131n miras\u00e7\u0131s\u0131, emzikli annenin yiyecek ve giyecek masraflar\u0131n\u0131 geleneklere g\u00f6re ve tatl\u0131l\u0131kla kar\u015f\u0131lamakla y\u00fck\u00fcml\u00fcd\u00fcr. B\u00f6ylece aile-i\u00e7i dayan\u0131\u015fma ger\u00e7ekle\u015fmi\u015f olur. Bu dayan\u0131\u015fman\u0131n yar\u0131s\u0131 miras almakla ve \u00f6b\u00fcr yar\u0131s\u0131 \u00f6len ki\u015finin geride b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131 y\u00fck\u00fcml\u00fcl\u00fcklerini \u00fcstlenmekle yerine gelir.B\u00f6ylece babas\u0131 \u00f6len \u00e7ocuk peri\u015fan olmaz. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc her ihtimal kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda hem kendisinin hem de annesinin haklar\u0131 teminat alt\u0131ndad\u0131r.Ayet-i celile, \u00e7ocu\u011fun ve annesinin bak\u0131m ve ge\u00e7imini bu \u015fekilde sa\u011flama ba\u011flad\u0131ktan sonra emzirme ile ilgili di\u011fer ayr\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131 sonuca ba\u011flamaya ge\u00e7iyor:\\\"E\u011fer ana-baba konu\u015fup anla\u015farak, ortak r\u0131zalar\u0131 ile \u00e7ocu\u011fu memeden kesmek isterlerse hi\u00e7birine sorumluluk d\u00fc\u015fmez.\\\"Yani e\u011fer ana ile baba ya da ana ile baban\u0131n yetkili miras\u00e7\u0131s\u0131 \u00e7ocu\u011fu iki y\u0131ll\u0131k s\u00fcre dolmadan \u00f6nce memeden kesmek isterlerse, \u00e7ocu\u011fun sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ile ilgili ya da ba\u015fka bir sebeple b\u00f6yle bir karara varmay\u0131 uygun g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015fler ise bu karar y\u00fcz\u00fcnden sorumlu olmazlar. Yaln\u0131z bu karar\u0131, bak\u0131m\u0131 omuzlar\u0131na y\u00fcklenmi\u015f,g\u00f6zetim y\u00fck\u00fcml\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc s\u0131rtlar\u0131na bindirilmi\u015f olan ki\u015filer, meme \u00e7a\u011f\u0131ndaki yavrunun iyili\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnerek ve aralar\u0131nda konu\u015fup anla\u015farak kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 g\u00f6n\u00fcl r\u0131zas\u0131 ile vermi\u015f olmal\u0131d\u0131rlar.Bunun yan\u0131s\u0131ra e\u011fer baba, \u00e7ocu\u011funa \u00fccretli s\u00fct annesi tutmak isterse, e\u011fer \u00e7ocu\u011fun yarar\u0131 bu yoldan ger\u00e7ekle\u015fiyorsa, tutulacak s\u00fct annesinin \u00fccretini tam olarak vermek ve ona kar\u015f\u0131 iyi davranmak \u015fart\u0131 ile bu iste\u011fini yerine getirebilir:\\\"E\u011fer \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131za s\u00fctannesi tutmak isterseniz, verece\u011finiz \u00fccreti geleneklere uygun olarak \u00f6dedi\u011finiz takdirde \u00fczerinize sorumluluk d\u00fc\u015fmez.\\\"Burada s\u00f6z\u00fc edilen \u00fccreti tam \u00f6deme \u015fart\u0131, tutulan s\u00fct annenin \u00e7ocu\u011fa m\u00fc\u015ffik davranmas\u0131n\u0131n, onun bak\u0131m ve g\u00f6zetimi hususunda titizlik g\u00f6stermesinin teminat\u0131d\u0131r.Ayet, sonunda meseleyi t\u00fcm\u00fc ile takvaya, o k\u00f6kl\u00fc ve ince bilince ba\u011fl\u0131yor. O bilin\u00e7 ki, ona havale edilen \u015feyler, onsuz ger\u00e7ekle\u015femeyecek \u015feylerdir;\\\"Allah'tan korkun ve Allah'\u0131n yapt\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc bilin.\\\"Bu bilin\u00e7, ayetin sonunda seslendirilen a\u011f\u0131rl\u0131kl\u0131 teminatt\u0131r, asl\u0131nda tek ger\u00e7ek teminat budur.DUL KADINLARBo\u015fanm\u0131\u015f kad\u0131nlara ve bo\u015fanman\u0131n arkada b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131 somut problemlere ili\u015fkin yasal d\u00fczenlemeler a\u00e7\u0131kland\u0131ktan sonra kocas\u0131 \u00f6len kad\u0131nlara; bunlar\u0131n bekleme s\u00fcrelerine, bekleme s\u00fcrelerinin dolmas\u0131ndan sonra kendilerine yap\u0131lacak evlenme tekliflerine ve bekleme s\u00fcresi i\u00e7inde bu tekliflerin \u00e7\u0131tlat\u0131lmas\u0131na ili\u015fkin h\u00fck\u00fcmlerin anlat\u0131lmas\u0131na ge\u00e7iliyor:\",\"breadcrumb\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.ebrarmedya.com\/seyyid-kutub-bakis-acisiyla-bakara-suresi-233-ayet\/#breadcrumb\"},\"inLanguage\":\"tr\",\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"ReadAction\",\"target\":[\"https:\/\/www.ebrarmedya.com\/seyyid-kutub-bakis-acisiyla-bakara-suresi-233-ayet\/\"]}]},{\"@type\":\"BreadcrumbList\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.ebrarmedya.com\/seyyid-kutub-bakis-acisiyla-bakara-suresi-233-ayet\/#breadcrumb\",\"itemListElement\":[{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":1,\"name\":\"Ana sayfa\",\"item\":\"https:\/\/www.ebrarmedya.com\/\"},{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":2,\"name\":\"SEYY\u0130D KUTUB BAKI\u015e A\u00c7ISIYLA BAKARA SURES\u0130 233. 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AYET Nedir? • Ebrar Medya","description":"B\u0130SM\u0130LLAH\u0130RRAHMAN\u0130RRAH\u0130MHamd kendisinden ba\u015fka ilah olmayan, mutlak manada tek g\u00fc\u00e7 ve kudret sahibi olan Allah\u2019a mahsustur. Salat ve selam t\u00fcm peygamberlerin ve onlar\u0131 takip eden tabilerinin \u00fczerine olsun.233- Emzirme s\u00fcresini tamamlamak isteyen anneler, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 tam iki y\u0131l emzirirler. Annenin yiyecek ve giyeceklerini geleneklere uygun bi\u00e7imde sa\u011flamak, baban\u0131n g\u00f6revidir. Hi\u00e7 kimseye kapasitesi d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda bir g\u00f6rev y\u00fcklenemez. Ne anne ve ne de baba \u00e7ocu\u011fu y\u00fcz\u00fcnden zarara sokulmaz. Bu y\u00fck\u00fcml\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn ayn\u0131s\u0131 miras\u00e7\u0131ya da d\u00fc\u015fer.E\u011fer ana-baba konu\u015fup anla\u015farak ortak r\u0131zalar\u0131 ile \u00e7ocu\u011fu memeden kesmek isterlerse hi\u00e7birine sorumluluk d\u00fc\u015fmez. E\u011fer \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131za s\u00fct annesi tutmak isterseniz, verece\u011finiz \u00fccreti geleneklere uygun olarak \u00f6dedi\u011finiz takdirde \u00fczerinize sorumluluk d\u00fc\u015fmez.Allah'tan korkun ve Allah'\u0131n yapt\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc bilin.Bo\u015fanm\u0131\u015f bir annenin emzikli \u00e7ocu\u011funa kar\u015f\u0131 g\u00f6revi vard\u0131r. Allah bu g\u00f6revi, bizzat omuzlar\u0131na y\u00fcklemi\u015f ve bunu onun f\u0131tr\u00ee \u00f6zelli\u011fine ve \u015fefkatine b\u0131rakmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc kar\u0131-koca uyu\u015fmazl\u0131\u011f\u0131 annedeki bu nitelikleri bozabilir ve o zaman bunun zarar\u0131n\u0131 k\u00f6rpe yavru \u00e7eker. Bundan dolay\u0131 Allah, bu yavrunun bak\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 garantiye ba\u011fl\u0131yor ve bu g\u00f6revi anas\u0131n\u0131n omuzlar\u0131na y\u00fckl\u00fcyor. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc Allah insanlar\u0131, onlar\u0131n kendilerini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcklerinden daha \u00e7ok d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr; onlara kar\u015f\u0131 ana-babalar\u0131ndan daha iyiliksever ve daha \u015fefkatlidir.Y\u00fcce Allah, anneyi yeni do\u011fan \u00e7ocu\u011funu iki tam y\u0131l emzirmekle y\u00fck\u00fcml\u00fc tutuyor. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc O, bu s\u00fcrenin \u00e7ocu\u011fun organik ve psikolojik sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan ideal bir s\u00fcre oldu\u011funu biliyor. Bu y\u00fczden \"Emzirme s\u00fcresini tamamlamak isteyen anneler\" kay\u0131tlamas\u0131n\u0131 getiriyor. G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn bilimsel ara\u015ft\u0131rmalar\u0131, \u00e7ocu\u011fun biyolojik ve psikolojik a\u00e7\u0131dan sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 geli\u015fimi i\u00e7in iki y\u0131ll\u0131k emzirme s\u00fcresinin gerekli oldu\u011funu ortaya koymu\u015flard\u0131r. Fakat y\u00fcce Allah'\u0131n, m\u00fcsl\u00fcman cemaate y\u00f6nelik nimeti, onlar\u0131 bu ger\u00e7e\u011fi bilimsel tecr\u00fcbeleri ile \u00f6\u011freninceye kadar bekleme zorunlulu\u011fundan kurtarm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ilk evresi \u00e7ocukluk olan ortak insanl\u0131k hazinesi, bu uzun tecr\u00fcbe d\u00f6neminin bilgisizli\u011fine, bu bilgisizlik \u00e7ark\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6\u011f\u00fct\u00fcc\u00fc di\u015flilerine b\u0131rak\u0131lacak derecede \u00f6nemsiz de\u011fildir. Y\u00fcce Allah kullar\u0131na, \u00f6zellikle \u015fefkate ve bak\u0131ma muhta\u00e7 olan \u00e7aresiz yavrulara kar\u015f\u0131 merhamet sahibidir.Annenin, y\u00fcce Allah taraf\u0131ndan omuzlar\u0131na y\u00fcklenen bu g\u00f6reve kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k \u00e7ocu\u011fun babas\u0131 \u00fczerinde de baz\u0131 haklar\u0131 vard\u0131r. Bu haklar baban\u0131n, geleneklere uygun bi\u00e7imde ve tatl\u0131l\u0131kla kad\u0131n\u0131n yiyece\u011fini ve giyim-ku\u015fam\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flamas\u0131d\u0131r. Bu g\u00f6revde kar\u0131 ile kocan\u0131n her ikisi de ortakt\u0131r. Her ikisinin de bu meme \u00e7a\u011f\u0131ndaki yavruya kar\u015f\u0131 sorumluluklar\u0131 vard\u0131r. Annesi bu yavruya s\u00fct\u00fc ve bak\u0131m\u0131 ile yard\u0131mc\u0131 olacak, babas\u0131 da kendisini \u00e7ocu\u011funun bak\u0131m\u0131na adam\u0131\u015f olan annenin yiyecek ve giyecek ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131layacakt\u0131r. B\u00f6ylece her ikisi de g\u00fc\u00e7lerinin s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131 i\u00e7inde g\u00f6revlerini yerine getirmi\u015f olurlar:\"Hi\u00e7 kimseye kapasitesi d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda bir g\u00f6rev y\u00fcklenmez.\"Ayr\u0131ca ana-babadan biri \u00e7ocu\u011fu kar\u015f\u0131 tarafa zarar vermek i\u00e7in koz ya da bahane olarak kullanmamal\u0131d\u0131r:\"Ne anne ve ne de baba \u00e7ocu\u011fu y\u00fcz\u00fcnden zarara sokulamaz.\"Buna g\u00f6re baba, anneyi tehdit ederek \u00e7ocu\u011fa kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ks\u0131z bi\u00e7imde meme vermesini sa\u011flamak i\u00e7in kad\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7ocu\u011funa kar\u015f\u0131 besledi\u011fi sevgiyi, \u015fefkati ve \u00f6zlemi istismar edemeyece\u011fi gibi kad\u0131n da erke\u011fin \u00e7ocu\u011funa y\u00f6nelik babal\u0131k duygular\u0131n\u0131 ve sevgisini y\u00fckl\u00fc maddi kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131klar elde etmek amac\u0131 ile k\u00f6t\u00fcye kullanamaz, s\u00f6m\u00fcremez.E\u011fer baba \u00f6l\u00fcrse \u00e7ocu\u011funa kar\u015f\u0131 ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131 y\u00fck\u00fcml\u00fcl\u00fckler, sorumluluk alabilecek miras\u00e7\u0131s\u0131na ge\u00e7er:\"Bu y\u00fck\u00fcml\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn ayn\u0131s\u0131 miras\u00e7\u0131ya da d\u00fc\u015fer.\"B\u00f6yle bir durumda \u00f6len baban\u0131n miras\u00e7\u0131s\u0131, emzikli annenin yiyecek ve giyecek masraflar\u0131n\u0131 geleneklere g\u00f6re ve tatl\u0131l\u0131kla kar\u015f\u0131lamakla y\u00fck\u00fcml\u00fcd\u00fcr. B\u00f6ylece aile-i\u00e7i dayan\u0131\u015fma ger\u00e7ekle\u015fmi\u015f olur. Bu dayan\u0131\u015fman\u0131n yar\u0131s\u0131 miras almakla ve \u00f6b\u00fcr yar\u0131s\u0131 \u00f6len ki\u015finin geride b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131 y\u00fck\u00fcml\u00fcl\u00fcklerini \u00fcstlenmekle yerine gelir.B\u00f6ylece babas\u0131 \u00f6len \u00e7ocuk peri\u015fan olmaz. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc her ihtimal kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda hem kendisinin hem de annesinin haklar\u0131 teminat alt\u0131ndad\u0131r.Ayet-i celile, \u00e7ocu\u011fun ve annesinin bak\u0131m ve ge\u00e7imini bu \u015fekilde sa\u011flama ba\u011flad\u0131ktan sonra emzirme ile ilgili di\u011fer ayr\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131 sonuca ba\u011flamaya ge\u00e7iyor:\"E\u011fer ana-baba konu\u015fup anla\u015farak, ortak r\u0131zalar\u0131 ile \u00e7ocu\u011fu memeden kesmek isterlerse hi\u00e7birine sorumluluk d\u00fc\u015fmez.\"Yani e\u011fer ana ile baba ya da ana ile baban\u0131n yetkili miras\u00e7\u0131s\u0131 \u00e7ocu\u011fu iki y\u0131ll\u0131k s\u00fcre dolmadan \u00f6nce memeden kesmek isterlerse, \u00e7ocu\u011fun sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ile ilgili ya da ba\u015fka bir sebeple b\u00f6yle bir karara varmay\u0131 uygun g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015fler ise bu karar y\u00fcz\u00fcnden sorumlu olmazlar. Yaln\u0131z bu karar\u0131, bak\u0131m\u0131 omuzlar\u0131na y\u00fcklenmi\u015f,g\u00f6zetim y\u00fck\u00fcml\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc s\u0131rtlar\u0131na bindirilmi\u015f olan ki\u015filer, meme \u00e7a\u011f\u0131ndaki yavrunun iyili\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnerek ve aralar\u0131nda konu\u015fup anla\u015farak kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 g\u00f6n\u00fcl r\u0131zas\u0131 ile vermi\u015f olmal\u0131d\u0131rlar.Bunun yan\u0131s\u0131ra e\u011fer baba, \u00e7ocu\u011funa \u00fccretli s\u00fct annesi tutmak isterse, e\u011fer \u00e7ocu\u011fun yarar\u0131 bu yoldan ger\u00e7ekle\u015fiyorsa, tutulacak s\u00fct annesinin \u00fccretini tam olarak vermek ve ona kar\u015f\u0131 iyi davranmak \u015fart\u0131 ile bu iste\u011fini yerine getirebilir:\"E\u011fer \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131za s\u00fctannesi tutmak isterseniz, verece\u011finiz \u00fccreti geleneklere uygun olarak \u00f6dedi\u011finiz takdirde \u00fczerinize sorumluluk d\u00fc\u015fmez.\"Burada s\u00f6z\u00fc edilen \u00fccreti tam \u00f6deme \u015fart\u0131, tutulan s\u00fct annenin \u00e7ocu\u011fa m\u00fc\u015ffik davranmas\u0131n\u0131n, onun bak\u0131m ve g\u00f6zetimi hususunda titizlik g\u00f6stermesinin teminat\u0131d\u0131r.Ayet, sonunda meseleyi t\u00fcm\u00fc ile takvaya, o k\u00f6kl\u00fc ve ince bilince ba\u011fl\u0131yor. O bilin\u00e7 ki, ona havale edilen \u015feyler, onsuz ger\u00e7ekle\u015femeyecek \u015feylerdir;\"Allah'tan korkun ve Allah'\u0131n yapt\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc bilin.\"Bu bilin\u00e7, ayetin sonunda seslendirilen a\u011f\u0131rl\u0131kl\u0131 teminatt\u0131r, asl\u0131nda tek ger\u00e7ek teminat budur.DUL KADINLARBo\u015fanm\u0131\u015f kad\u0131nlara ve bo\u015fanman\u0131n arkada b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131 somut problemlere ili\u015fkin yasal d\u00fczenlemeler a\u00e7\u0131kland\u0131ktan sonra kocas\u0131 \u00f6len kad\u0131nlara; bunlar\u0131n bekleme s\u00fcrelerine, bekleme s\u00fcrelerinin dolmas\u0131ndan sonra kendilerine yap\u0131lacak evlenme tekliflerine ve bekleme s\u00fcresi i\u00e7inde bu tekliflerin \u00e7\u0131tlat\u0131lmas\u0131na ili\u015fkin h\u00fck\u00fcmlerin anlat\u0131lmas\u0131na ge\u00e7iliyor:","robots":{"index":"index","follow":"follow","max-snippet":"max-snippet:-1","max-image-preview":"max-image-preview:large","max-video-preview":"max-video-preview:-1"},"canonical":"https:\/\/www.ebrarmedya.com\/seyyid-kutub-bakis-acisiyla-bakara-suresi-233-ayet\/","og_locale":"tr_TR","og_type":"article","og_title":"SEYY\u0130D KUTUB BAKI\u015e A\u00c7ISIYLA BAKARA SURES\u0130 233. AYET Nedir? • Ebrar Medya","og_description":"B\u0130SM\u0130LLAH\u0130RRAHMAN\u0130RRAH\u0130MHamd kendisinden ba\u015fka ilah olmayan, mutlak manada tek g\u00fc\u00e7 ve kudret sahibi olan Allah\u2019a mahsustur. Salat ve selam t\u00fcm peygamberlerin ve onlar\u0131 takip eden tabilerinin \u00fczerine olsun.233- Emzirme s\u00fcresini tamamlamak isteyen anneler, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 tam iki y\u0131l emzirirler. Annenin yiyecek ve giyeceklerini geleneklere uygun bi\u00e7imde sa\u011flamak, baban\u0131n g\u00f6revidir. Hi\u00e7 kimseye kapasitesi d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda bir g\u00f6rev y\u00fcklenemez. Ne anne ve ne de baba \u00e7ocu\u011fu y\u00fcz\u00fcnden zarara sokulmaz. Bu y\u00fck\u00fcml\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn ayn\u0131s\u0131 miras\u00e7\u0131ya da d\u00fc\u015fer.E\u011fer ana-baba konu\u015fup anla\u015farak ortak r\u0131zalar\u0131 ile \u00e7ocu\u011fu memeden kesmek isterlerse hi\u00e7birine sorumluluk d\u00fc\u015fmez. E\u011fer \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131za s\u00fct annesi tutmak isterseniz, verece\u011finiz \u00fccreti geleneklere uygun olarak \u00f6dedi\u011finiz takdirde \u00fczerinize sorumluluk d\u00fc\u015fmez.Allah'tan korkun ve Allah'\u0131n yapt\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc bilin.Bo\u015fanm\u0131\u015f bir annenin emzikli \u00e7ocu\u011funa kar\u015f\u0131 g\u00f6revi vard\u0131r. Allah bu g\u00f6revi, bizzat omuzlar\u0131na y\u00fcklemi\u015f ve bunu onun f\u0131tr\u00ee \u00f6zelli\u011fine ve \u015fefkatine b\u0131rakmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc kar\u0131-koca uyu\u015fmazl\u0131\u011f\u0131 annedeki bu nitelikleri bozabilir ve o zaman bunun zarar\u0131n\u0131 k\u00f6rpe yavru \u00e7eker. Bundan dolay\u0131 Allah, bu yavrunun bak\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 garantiye ba\u011fl\u0131yor ve bu g\u00f6revi anas\u0131n\u0131n omuzlar\u0131na y\u00fckl\u00fcyor. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc Allah insanlar\u0131, onlar\u0131n kendilerini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcklerinden daha \u00e7ok d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr; onlara kar\u015f\u0131 ana-babalar\u0131ndan daha iyiliksever ve daha \u015fefkatlidir.Y\u00fcce Allah, anneyi yeni do\u011fan \u00e7ocu\u011funu iki tam y\u0131l emzirmekle y\u00fck\u00fcml\u00fc tutuyor. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc O, bu s\u00fcrenin \u00e7ocu\u011fun organik ve psikolojik sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan ideal bir s\u00fcre oldu\u011funu biliyor. Bu y\u00fczden \"Emzirme s\u00fcresini tamamlamak isteyen anneler\" kay\u0131tlamas\u0131n\u0131 getiriyor. G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn bilimsel ara\u015ft\u0131rmalar\u0131, \u00e7ocu\u011fun biyolojik ve psikolojik a\u00e7\u0131dan sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 geli\u015fimi i\u00e7in iki y\u0131ll\u0131k emzirme s\u00fcresinin gerekli oldu\u011funu ortaya koymu\u015flard\u0131r. Fakat y\u00fcce Allah'\u0131n, m\u00fcsl\u00fcman cemaate y\u00f6nelik nimeti, onlar\u0131 bu ger\u00e7e\u011fi bilimsel tecr\u00fcbeleri ile \u00f6\u011freninceye kadar bekleme zorunlulu\u011fundan kurtarm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ilk evresi \u00e7ocukluk olan ortak insanl\u0131k hazinesi, bu uzun tecr\u00fcbe d\u00f6neminin bilgisizli\u011fine, bu bilgisizlik \u00e7ark\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6\u011f\u00fct\u00fcc\u00fc di\u015flilerine b\u0131rak\u0131lacak derecede \u00f6nemsiz de\u011fildir. Y\u00fcce Allah kullar\u0131na, \u00f6zellikle \u015fefkate ve bak\u0131ma muhta\u00e7 olan \u00e7aresiz yavrulara kar\u015f\u0131 merhamet sahibidir.Annenin, y\u00fcce Allah taraf\u0131ndan omuzlar\u0131na y\u00fcklenen bu g\u00f6reve kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k \u00e7ocu\u011fun babas\u0131 \u00fczerinde de baz\u0131 haklar\u0131 vard\u0131r. Bu haklar baban\u0131n, geleneklere uygun bi\u00e7imde ve tatl\u0131l\u0131kla kad\u0131n\u0131n yiyece\u011fini ve giyim-ku\u015fam\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flamas\u0131d\u0131r. Bu g\u00f6revde kar\u0131 ile kocan\u0131n her ikisi de ortakt\u0131r. Her ikisinin de bu meme \u00e7a\u011f\u0131ndaki yavruya kar\u015f\u0131 sorumluluklar\u0131 vard\u0131r. Annesi bu yavruya s\u00fct\u00fc ve bak\u0131m\u0131 ile yard\u0131mc\u0131 olacak, babas\u0131 da kendisini \u00e7ocu\u011funun bak\u0131m\u0131na adam\u0131\u015f olan annenin yiyecek ve giyecek ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131layacakt\u0131r. B\u00f6ylece her ikisi de g\u00fc\u00e7lerinin s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131 i\u00e7inde g\u00f6revlerini yerine getirmi\u015f olurlar:\"Hi\u00e7 kimseye kapasitesi d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda bir g\u00f6rev y\u00fcklenmez.\"Ayr\u0131ca ana-babadan biri \u00e7ocu\u011fu kar\u015f\u0131 tarafa zarar vermek i\u00e7in koz ya da bahane olarak kullanmamal\u0131d\u0131r:\"Ne anne ve ne de baba \u00e7ocu\u011fu y\u00fcz\u00fcnden zarara sokulamaz.\"Buna g\u00f6re baba, anneyi tehdit ederek \u00e7ocu\u011fa kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ks\u0131z bi\u00e7imde meme vermesini sa\u011flamak i\u00e7in kad\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7ocu\u011funa kar\u015f\u0131 besledi\u011fi sevgiyi, \u015fefkati ve \u00f6zlemi istismar edemeyece\u011fi gibi kad\u0131n da erke\u011fin \u00e7ocu\u011funa y\u00f6nelik babal\u0131k duygular\u0131n\u0131 ve sevgisini y\u00fckl\u00fc maddi kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131klar elde etmek amac\u0131 ile k\u00f6t\u00fcye kullanamaz, s\u00f6m\u00fcremez.E\u011fer baba \u00f6l\u00fcrse \u00e7ocu\u011funa kar\u015f\u0131 ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131 y\u00fck\u00fcml\u00fcl\u00fckler, sorumluluk alabilecek miras\u00e7\u0131s\u0131na ge\u00e7er:\"Bu y\u00fck\u00fcml\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn ayn\u0131s\u0131 miras\u00e7\u0131ya da d\u00fc\u015fer.\"B\u00f6yle bir durumda \u00f6len baban\u0131n miras\u00e7\u0131s\u0131, emzikli annenin yiyecek ve giyecek masraflar\u0131n\u0131 geleneklere g\u00f6re ve tatl\u0131l\u0131kla kar\u015f\u0131lamakla y\u00fck\u00fcml\u00fcd\u00fcr. B\u00f6ylece aile-i\u00e7i dayan\u0131\u015fma ger\u00e7ekle\u015fmi\u015f olur. Bu dayan\u0131\u015fman\u0131n yar\u0131s\u0131 miras almakla ve \u00f6b\u00fcr yar\u0131s\u0131 \u00f6len ki\u015finin geride b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131 y\u00fck\u00fcml\u00fcl\u00fcklerini \u00fcstlenmekle yerine gelir.B\u00f6ylece babas\u0131 \u00f6len \u00e7ocuk peri\u015fan olmaz. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc her ihtimal kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda hem kendisinin hem de annesinin haklar\u0131 teminat alt\u0131ndad\u0131r.Ayet-i celile, \u00e7ocu\u011fun ve annesinin bak\u0131m ve ge\u00e7imini bu \u015fekilde sa\u011flama ba\u011flad\u0131ktan sonra emzirme ile ilgili di\u011fer ayr\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131 sonuca ba\u011flamaya ge\u00e7iyor:\"E\u011fer ana-baba konu\u015fup anla\u015farak, ortak r\u0131zalar\u0131 ile \u00e7ocu\u011fu memeden kesmek isterlerse hi\u00e7birine sorumluluk d\u00fc\u015fmez.\"Yani e\u011fer ana ile baba ya da ana ile baban\u0131n yetkili miras\u00e7\u0131s\u0131 \u00e7ocu\u011fu iki y\u0131ll\u0131k s\u00fcre dolmadan \u00f6nce memeden kesmek isterlerse, \u00e7ocu\u011fun sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ile ilgili ya da ba\u015fka bir sebeple b\u00f6yle bir karara varmay\u0131 uygun g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015fler ise bu karar y\u00fcz\u00fcnden sorumlu olmazlar. Yaln\u0131z bu karar\u0131, bak\u0131m\u0131 omuzlar\u0131na y\u00fcklenmi\u015f,g\u00f6zetim y\u00fck\u00fcml\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc s\u0131rtlar\u0131na bindirilmi\u015f olan ki\u015filer, meme \u00e7a\u011f\u0131ndaki yavrunun iyili\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnerek ve aralar\u0131nda konu\u015fup anla\u015farak kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 g\u00f6n\u00fcl r\u0131zas\u0131 ile vermi\u015f olmal\u0131d\u0131rlar.Bunun yan\u0131s\u0131ra e\u011fer baba, \u00e7ocu\u011funa \u00fccretli s\u00fct annesi tutmak isterse, e\u011fer \u00e7ocu\u011fun yarar\u0131 bu yoldan ger\u00e7ekle\u015fiyorsa, tutulacak s\u00fct annesinin \u00fccretini tam olarak vermek ve ona kar\u015f\u0131 iyi davranmak \u015fart\u0131 ile bu iste\u011fini yerine getirebilir:\"E\u011fer \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131za s\u00fctannesi tutmak isterseniz, verece\u011finiz \u00fccreti geleneklere uygun olarak \u00f6dedi\u011finiz takdirde \u00fczerinize sorumluluk d\u00fc\u015fmez.\"Burada s\u00f6z\u00fc edilen \u00fccreti tam \u00f6deme \u015fart\u0131, tutulan s\u00fct annenin \u00e7ocu\u011fa m\u00fc\u015ffik davranmas\u0131n\u0131n, onun bak\u0131m ve g\u00f6zetimi hususunda titizlik g\u00f6stermesinin teminat\u0131d\u0131r.Ayet, sonunda meseleyi t\u00fcm\u00fc ile takvaya, o k\u00f6kl\u00fc ve ince bilince ba\u011fl\u0131yor. O bilin\u00e7 ki, ona havale edilen \u015feyler, onsuz ger\u00e7ekle\u015femeyecek \u015feylerdir;\"Allah'tan korkun ve Allah'\u0131n yapt\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc bilin.\"Bu bilin\u00e7, ayetin sonunda seslendirilen a\u011f\u0131rl\u0131kl\u0131 teminatt\u0131r, asl\u0131nda tek ger\u00e7ek teminat budur.DUL KADINLARBo\u015fanm\u0131\u015f kad\u0131nlara ve bo\u015fanman\u0131n arkada b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131 somut problemlere ili\u015fkin yasal d\u00fczenlemeler a\u00e7\u0131kland\u0131ktan sonra kocas\u0131 \u00f6len kad\u0131nlara; bunlar\u0131n bekleme s\u00fcrelerine, bekleme s\u00fcrelerinin dolmas\u0131ndan sonra kendilerine yap\u0131lacak evlenme tekliflerine ve bekleme s\u00fcresi i\u00e7inde bu tekliflerin \u00e7\u0131tlat\u0131lmas\u0131na ili\u015fkin h\u00fck\u00fcmlerin anlat\u0131lmas\u0131na ge\u00e7iliyor:","og_url":"https:\/\/www.ebrarmedya.com\/seyyid-kutub-bakis-acisiyla-bakara-suresi-233-ayet\/","og_site_name":"Ebrar Medya","article_publisher":"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/ebrarmedyacom\/","article_published_time":"2019-08-09T07:44:40+00:00","article_modified_time":"2019-08-09T07:48:02+00:00","og_image":[{"width":730,"height":360,"url":"https:\/\/www.ebrarmedya.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/SEYY\u0130D-KUTUB-TASLAK-8.jpg","type":"image\/jpeg"}],"author":"EBRAR MEDYA","twitter_card":"summary_large_image","twitter_creator":"@ebrarmedyacom","twitter_site":"@ebrarmedyacom","twitter_misc":{"Yazan:":"EBRAR MEDYA","Tahmini okuma s\u00fcresi":"6 dakika"},"schema":{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org","@graph":[{"@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.ebrarmedya.com\/seyyid-kutub-bakis-acisiyla-bakara-suresi-233-ayet\/#article","isPartOf":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.ebrarmedya.com\/seyyid-kutub-bakis-acisiyla-bakara-suresi-233-ayet\/"},"author":{"name":"EBRAR MEDYA","@id":"https:\/\/www.ebrarmedya.com\/#\/schema\/person\/465b3fc234a943bf45881579159c57d6"},"headline":"SEYY\u0130D KUTUB BAKI\u015e A\u00c7ISIYLA BAKARA SURES\u0130 233. 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AYET Nedir? • Ebrar Medya","isPartOf":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.ebrarmedya.com\/#website"},"datePublished":"2019-08-09T07:44:40+00:00","dateModified":"2019-08-09T07:48:02+00:00","description":"B\u0130SM\u0130LLAH\u0130RRAHMAN\u0130RRAH\u0130MHamd kendisinden ba\u015fka ilah olmayan, mutlak manada tek g\u00fc\u00e7 ve kudret sahibi olan Allah\u2019a mahsustur. Salat ve selam t\u00fcm peygamberlerin ve onlar\u0131 takip eden tabilerinin \u00fczerine olsun.233- Emzirme s\u00fcresini tamamlamak isteyen anneler, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 tam iki y\u0131l emzirirler. Annenin yiyecek ve giyeceklerini geleneklere uygun bi\u00e7imde sa\u011flamak, baban\u0131n g\u00f6revidir. Hi\u00e7 kimseye kapasitesi d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda bir g\u00f6rev y\u00fcklenemez. Ne anne ve ne de baba \u00e7ocu\u011fu y\u00fcz\u00fcnden zarara sokulmaz. Bu y\u00fck\u00fcml\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn ayn\u0131s\u0131 miras\u00e7\u0131ya da d\u00fc\u015fer.E\u011fer ana-baba konu\u015fup anla\u015farak ortak r\u0131zalar\u0131 ile \u00e7ocu\u011fu memeden kesmek isterlerse hi\u00e7birine sorumluluk d\u00fc\u015fmez. E\u011fer \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131za s\u00fct annesi tutmak isterseniz, verece\u011finiz \u00fccreti geleneklere uygun olarak \u00f6dedi\u011finiz takdirde \u00fczerinize sorumluluk d\u00fc\u015fmez.Allah'tan korkun ve Allah'\u0131n yapt\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc bilin.Bo\u015fanm\u0131\u015f bir annenin emzikli \u00e7ocu\u011funa kar\u015f\u0131 g\u00f6revi vard\u0131r. Allah bu g\u00f6revi, bizzat omuzlar\u0131na y\u00fcklemi\u015f ve bunu onun f\u0131tr\u00ee \u00f6zelli\u011fine ve \u015fefkatine b\u0131rakmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc kar\u0131-koca uyu\u015fmazl\u0131\u011f\u0131 annedeki bu nitelikleri bozabilir ve o zaman bunun zarar\u0131n\u0131 k\u00f6rpe yavru \u00e7eker. Bundan dolay\u0131 Allah, bu yavrunun bak\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 garantiye ba\u011fl\u0131yor ve bu g\u00f6revi anas\u0131n\u0131n omuzlar\u0131na y\u00fckl\u00fcyor. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc Allah insanlar\u0131, onlar\u0131n kendilerini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcklerinden daha \u00e7ok d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr; onlara kar\u015f\u0131 ana-babalar\u0131ndan daha iyiliksever ve daha \u015fefkatlidir.Y\u00fcce Allah, anneyi yeni do\u011fan \u00e7ocu\u011funu iki tam y\u0131l emzirmekle y\u00fck\u00fcml\u00fc tutuyor. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc O, bu s\u00fcrenin \u00e7ocu\u011fun organik ve psikolojik sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan ideal bir s\u00fcre oldu\u011funu biliyor. Bu y\u00fczden \"Emzirme s\u00fcresini tamamlamak isteyen anneler\" kay\u0131tlamas\u0131n\u0131 getiriyor. G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn bilimsel ara\u015ft\u0131rmalar\u0131, \u00e7ocu\u011fun biyolojik ve psikolojik a\u00e7\u0131dan sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 geli\u015fimi i\u00e7in iki y\u0131ll\u0131k emzirme s\u00fcresinin gerekli oldu\u011funu ortaya koymu\u015flard\u0131r. Fakat y\u00fcce Allah'\u0131n, m\u00fcsl\u00fcman cemaate y\u00f6nelik nimeti, onlar\u0131 bu ger\u00e7e\u011fi bilimsel tecr\u00fcbeleri ile \u00f6\u011freninceye kadar bekleme zorunlulu\u011fundan kurtarm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ilk evresi \u00e7ocukluk olan ortak insanl\u0131k hazinesi, bu uzun tecr\u00fcbe d\u00f6neminin bilgisizli\u011fine, bu bilgisizlik \u00e7ark\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6\u011f\u00fct\u00fcc\u00fc di\u015flilerine b\u0131rak\u0131lacak derecede \u00f6nemsiz de\u011fildir. Y\u00fcce Allah kullar\u0131na, \u00f6zellikle \u015fefkate ve bak\u0131ma muhta\u00e7 olan \u00e7aresiz yavrulara kar\u015f\u0131 merhamet sahibidir.Annenin, y\u00fcce Allah taraf\u0131ndan omuzlar\u0131na y\u00fcklenen bu g\u00f6reve kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k \u00e7ocu\u011fun babas\u0131 \u00fczerinde de baz\u0131 haklar\u0131 vard\u0131r. Bu haklar baban\u0131n, geleneklere uygun bi\u00e7imde ve tatl\u0131l\u0131kla kad\u0131n\u0131n yiyece\u011fini ve giyim-ku\u015fam\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flamas\u0131d\u0131r. Bu g\u00f6revde kar\u0131 ile kocan\u0131n her ikisi de ortakt\u0131r. Her ikisinin de bu meme \u00e7a\u011f\u0131ndaki yavruya kar\u015f\u0131 sorumluluklar\u0131 vard\u0131r. Annesi bu yavruya s\u00fct\u00fc ve bak\u0131m\u0131 ile yard\u0131mc\u0131 olacak, babas\u0131 da kendisini \u00e7ocu\u011funun bak\u0131m\u0131na adam\u0131\u015f olan annenin yiyecek ve giyecek ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131layacakt\u0131r. B\u00f6ylece her ikisi de g\u00fc\u00e7lerinin s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131 i\u00e7inde g\u00f6revlerini yerine getirmi\u015f olurlar:\"Hi\u00e7 kimseye kapasitesi d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda bir g\u00f6rev y\u00fcklenmez.\"Ayr\u0131ca ana-babadan biri \u00e7ocu\u011fu kar\u015f\u0131 tarafa zarar vermek i\u00e7in koz ya da bahane olarak kullanmamal\u0131d\u0131r:\"Ne anne ve ne de baba \u00e7ocu\u011fu y\u00fcz\u00fcnden zarara sokulamaz.\"Buna g\u00f6re baba, anneyi tehdit ederek \u00e7ocu\u011fa kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ks\u0131z bi\u00e7imde meme vermesini sa\u011flamak i\u00e7in kad\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7ocu\u011funa kar\u015f\u0131 besledi\u011fi sevgiyi, \u015fefkati ve \u00f6zlemi istismar edemeyece\u011fi gibi kad\u0131n da erke\u011fin \u00e7ocu\u011funa y\u00f6nelik babal\u0131k duygular\u0131n\u0131 ve sevgisini y\u00fckl\u00fc maddi kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131klar elde etmek amac\u0131 ile k\u00f6t\u00fcye kullanamaz, s\u00f6m\u00fcremez.E\u011fer baba \u00f6l\u00fcrse \u00e7ocu\u011funa kar\u015f\u0131 ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131 y\u00fck\u00fcml\u00fcl\u00fckler, sorumluluk alabilecek miras\u00e7\u0131s\u0131na ge\u00e7er:\"Bu y\u00fck\u00fcml\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn ayn\u0131s\u0131 miras\u00e7\u0131ya da d\u00fc\u015fer.\"B\u00f6yle bir durumda \u00f6len baban\u0131n miras\u00e7\u0131s\u0131, emzikli annenin yiyecek ve giyecek masraflar\u0131n\u0131 geleneklere g\u00f6re ve tatl\u0131l\u0131kla kar\u015f\u0131lamakla y\u00fck\u00fcml\u00fcd\u00fcr. B\u00f6ylece aile-i\u00e7i dayan\u0131\u015fma ger\u00e7ekle\u015fmi\u015f olur. Bu dayan\u0131\u015fman\u0131n yar\u0131s\u0131 miras almakla ve \u00f6b\u00fcr yar\u0131s\u0131 \u00f6len ki\u015finin geride b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131 y\u00fck\u00fcml\u00fcl\u00fcklerini \u00fcstlenmekle yerine gelir.B\u00f6ylece babas\u0131 \u00f6len \u00e7ocuk peri\u015fan olmaz. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc her ihtimal kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda hem kendisinin hem de annesinin haklar\u0131 teminat alt\u0131ndad\u0131r.Ayet-i celile, \u00e7ocu\u011fun ve annesinin bak\u0131m ve ge\u00e7imini bu \u015fekilde sa\u011flama ba\u011flad\u0131ktan sonra emzirme ile ilgili di\u011fer ayr\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131 sonuca ba\u011flamaya ge\u00e7iyor:\"E\u011fer ana-baba konu\u015fup anla\u015farak, ortak r\u0131zalar\u0131 ile \u00e7ocu\u011fu memeden kesmek isterlerse hi\u00e7birine sorumluluk d\u00fc\u015fmez.\"Yani e\u011fer ana ile baba ya da ana ile baban\u0131n yetkili miras\u00e7\u0131s\u0131 \u00e7ocu\u011fu iki y\u0131ll\u0131k s\u00fcre dolmadan \u00f6nce memeden kesmek isterlerse, \u00e7ocu\u011fun sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ile ilgili ya da ba\u015fka bir sebeple b\u00f6yle bir karara varmay\u0131 uygun g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015fler ise bu karar y\u00fcz\u00fcnden sorumlu olmazlar. Yaln\u0131z bu karar\u0131, bak\u0131m\u0131 omuzlar\u0131na y\u00fcklenmi\u015f,g\u00f6zetim y\u00fck\u00fcml\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc s\u0131rtlar\u0131na bindirilmi\u015f olan ki\u015filer, meme \u00e7a\u011f\u0131ndaki yavrunun iyili\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnerek ve aralar\u0131nda konu\u015fup anla\u015farak kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 g\u00f6n\u00fcl r\u0131zas\u0131 ile vermi\u015f olmal\u0131d\u0131rlar.Bunun yan\u0131s\u0131ra e\u011fer baba, \u00e7ocu\u011funa \u00fccretli s\u00fct annesi tutmak isterse, e\u011fer \u00e7ocu\u011fun yarar\u0131 bu yoldan ger\u00e7ekle\u015fiyorsa, tutulacak s\u00fct annesinin \u00fccretini tam olarak vermek ve ona kar\u015f\u0131 iyi davranmak \u015fart\u0131 ile bu iste\u011fini yerine getirebilir:\"E\u011fer \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131za s\u00fctannesi tutmak isterseniz, verece\u011finiz \u00fccreti geleneklere uygun olarak \u00f6dedi\u011finiz takdirde \u00fczerinize sorumluluk d\u00fc\u015fmez.\"Burada s\u00f6z\u00fc edilen \u00fccreti tam \u00f6deme \u015fart\u0131, tutulan s\u00fct annenin \u00e7ocu\u011fa m\u00fc\u015ffik davranmas\u0131n\u0131n, onun bak\u0131m ve g\u00f6zetimi hususunda titizlik g\u00f6stermesinin teminat\u0131d\u0131r.Ayet, sonunda meseleyi t\u00fcm\u00fc ile takvaya, o k\u00f6kl\u00fc ve ince bilince ba\u011fl\u0131yor. O bilin\u00e7 ki, ona havale edilen \u015feyler, onsuz ger\u00e7ekle\u015femeyecek \u015feylerdir;\"Allah'tan korkun ve Allah'\u0131n yapt\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc bilin.\"Bu bilin\u00e7, ayetin sonunda seslendirilen a\u011f\u0131rl\u0131kl\u0131 teminatt\u0131r, asl\u0131nda tek ger\u00e7ek teminat budur.DUL KADINLARBo\u015fanm\u0131\u015f kad\u0131nlara ve bo\u015fanman\u0131n arkada b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131 somut problemlere ili\u015fkin yasal d\u00fczenlemeler a\u00e7\u0131kland\u0131ktan sonra kocas\u0131 \u00f6len kad\u0131nlara; bunlar\u0131n bekleme s\u00fcrelerine, bekleme s\u00fcrelerinin dolmas\u0131ndan sonra kendilerine yap\u0131lacak evlenme tekliflerine ve bekleme s\u00fcresi i\u00e7inde bu tekliflerin \u00e7\u0131tlat\u0131lmas\u0131na ili\u015fkin h\u00fck\u00fcmlerin anlat\u0131lmas\u0131na ge\u00e7iliyor:","breadcrumb":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.ebrarmedya.com\/seyyid-kutub-bakis-acisiyla-bakara-suresi-233-ayet\/#breadcrumb"},"inLanguage":"tr","potentialAction":[{"@type":"ReadAction","target":["https:\/\/www.ebrarmedya.com\/seyyid-kutub-bakis-acisiyla-bakara-suresi-233-ayet\/"]}]},{"@type":"BreadcrumbList","@id":"https:\/\/www.ebrarmedya.com\/seyyid-kutub-bakis-acisiyla-bakara-suresi-233-ayet\/#breadcrumb","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Ana sayfa","item":"https:\/\/www.ebrarmedya.com\/"},{"@type":"ListItem","position":2,"name":"SEYY\u0130D KUTUB BAKI\u015e A\u00c7ISIYLA BAKARA SURES\u0130 233. 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